OldRUSHfan Posted December 11, 2016 Share Posted December 11, 2016 My mom 10/31/40 - 12/7/16. 76 years young. I cannot wrap my head around the fact that she is gone. She went into the hospital the day after thanksgiving and she passed on Wednesday evening 4:50 p.m. I would like to believe that she went to a place where she is perfect and happy and healthy and can do whatever, whenever. I love and already miss you, mom. Thank you for everything and for being in my life. I liked your post because that is THE SAME THING I SAID when my Mom passed. Condolences to you and I DO know how you feel!http://i81.photobucket.com/albums/j223/OldRUSHfan/Banana%20World/Crying%20banana.gif 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bean-tor Posted December 11, 2016 Share Posted December 11, 2016 My mom 10/31/40 - 12/7/16. 76 years young. I cannot wrap my head around the fact that she is gone. She went into the hospital the day after thanksgiving and she passed on Wednesday evening 4:50 p.m. I would like to believe that she went to a place where she is perfect and happy and healthy and can do whatever, whenever. I love and already miss you, mom. Thank you for everything and for being in my life. Such a touching post but oh gosh I'm sorry to hear this, librarian. My deepest condolences to you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verena Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 My mom 10/31/40 - 12/7/16. 76 years young. I cannot wrap my head around the fact that she is gone. She went into the hospital the day after thanksgiving and she passed on Wednesday evening 4:50 p.m. I would like to believe that she went to a place where she is perfect and happy and healthy and can do whatever, whenever. I love and already miss you, mom. Thank you for everything and for being in my life. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Segue Myles Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 I had to break up with my boyfriend yesterday. The timing wasn't good (when is it ever?) and I'm very sorry about that, but the clincher was when I was asking if he still loved me and he wouldn't answer the question. :( :( :( You are amazing Fun, beautiful, good taste, crazy humour, appreciation for the deeper things...you deserve a king and a court fool all in one! Sorry to hear this but honestly, I've never met you and I already know it's his loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 (edited) My mom 10/31/40 - 12/7/16. 76 years young. I cannot wrap my head around the fact that she is gone. She went into the hospital the day after thanksgiving and she passed on Wednesday evening 4:50 p.m. I would like to believe that she went to a place where she is perfect and happy and healthy and can do whatever, whenever. I love and already miss you, mom. Thank you for everything and for being in my life. I'm so very sorry, Librarian. :rose: :rose: :rose: Edited December 12, 2016 by Lorraine 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toymaker Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 I wish I could stop having regrets. Is this one of the stages of grief? I wish I had done more of this, less of that. It's like my psyche is doing everything it can to make me feel as awful as possible. I want my wife back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 I wish I could stop having regrets. Is this one of the stages of grief? I wish I had done more of this, less of that. It's like my psyche is doing everything it can to make me feel as awful as possible. I want my wife back. I was doing the same thing last night after the doctor called. Wish i hadn't done/said this or that; or that I had said/done this or that. I'm so very sorry, Mark. Here's something I learned too late in life and I pass it on to you. Don't torture and torment yourself. You feel bad enough without doing things (like listening to The Garden over and over) that make you feel worse. She wouldn't want you to do that. It doesn't help you at all, and all it does it continuously rip off the scab that is forming over the wound. Let yourself heal, and give yourself time. Grief has stages. I don't know if those stages are common to everyone in the same way. Time is really the only remedy unfortunately. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toymaker Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 I wish I could stop having regrets. Is this one of the stages of grief? I wish I had done more of this, less of that. It's like my psyche is doing everything it can to make me feel as awful as possible. I want my wife back. I was doing the same thing last night after the doctor called. Wish i hadn't done/said this or that; or that I had said/done this or that. I'm so very sorry, Mark. Here's something I learned too late in life and I pass it on to you. Don't torture and torment yourself. You feel bad enough without doing things (like listening to The Garden over and over) that make you feel worse. She wouldn't want you to do that. It doesn't help you at all, and all it does it continuously rip off the scab that is forming over the wound. Let yourself heal, and give yourself time. Grief has stages. I don't know if those stages are common to everyone in the same way. Time is really the only remedy unfortunately. Tormenting myself is one of my talents. Janet made me forget to do that. You're right: she wouldn't want me to do this. Yet it sneaks up on me . . . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnnyBlaze Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 I wish I could stop having regrets. Is this one of the stages of grief? I wish I had done more of this, less of that. It's like my psyche is doing everything it can to make me feel as awful as possible. I want my wife back.The feeling of regret is, if not universally associated with grief then at the very least, commonly associated with it. Regret is reflection. It shows how human we are. Naturally, it'd happen when one is grieving the loss of a loved one. Avoiding feelings of regret may be impossible but not being consumed by them isn't. Sorry again for your loss toymaker. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Permanent-Rush Posted December 12, 2016 Share Posted December 12, 2016 I am so sad, I want my boyfriend here so bad. I wanna cuddle and kiss him so bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verena Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 I am so sad, I want my boyfriend here so bad. I wanna cuddle and kiss him so bad.Right time will come. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verena Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 (edited) What made me sad today were some bad choices I've made. But I've got reasons to smile yet. At least. In fact, I'm just living.Like all humans. Edited December 13, 2016 by rhyv 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Permanent-Rush Posted December 13, 2016 Share Posted December 13, 2016 I just had a huge meltdown, but I am starting to feel okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 It's supposed to go down to -12 at night here the next couple of days. I'm scared and I'm cold. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Permanent-Rush Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 i have had enough, just everyone please leave me alone :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Permanent-Rush Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 don't talk to me :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Permanent-Rush Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 just let me be alone in isolation, please? :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Permanent-Rush Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 i hate life and i don't wanna be here :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toymaker Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verena Posted December 15, 2016 Share Posted December 15, 2016 (edited) People destroying Art and good cultural places instead of thinking about politics.This is the country I live. Feeling a bit revolted and upset here. Edited December 15, 2016 by rhyv 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dweezil Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 Aleppo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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treeduck Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 When I get sad, which isn't often, I don't feel the need to make a post about it... :P Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Segue Myles Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 Aleppo It angers me that nothing is being done on the scale it should be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Union 5-3992 Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 When I get sad, which isn't often, I don't feel the need to make a post about it... :P You'll get your medal in the mail Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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