Xanadoood Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Second date. Who pays? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 I know it's probably common knowledge that the man pays, or the one who invites on the date. But I'm into equality so she can pay for her own food. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tx_rush Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 When I go on dates, it comes out of the same bank account either way :) 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savagegrace26 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 I'll pay for dinner if she provides dessert. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Second date. Who pays?If you really like her, I suggest you pay. If not, tell her it's her turn. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 (edited) Wow. No wonder some of you are single. I know it's probably common knowledge that the man pays, or the one who invites on the date. But I'm into equality so she can pay for her own food. I'll pay for dinner if she provides dessert. Edited October 11, 2014 by Lorraine 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Wow. No wonder some of you are single. I know it's probably common knowledge that the man pays, or the one who invites on the date. But I'm into equality so she can pay for her own food. I'll pay for dinner if she provides dessert. :laughing guy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 When I go on dates, it comes out of the same bank account either way :)Do you ever joke about who's paying when the check comes? We do..... :D 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tx_rush Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 When I go on dates, it comes out of the same bank account either way :)Do you ever joke about who's paying when the check comes? We do..... :D Yep. " no, I insist!" 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Wow. No wonder some of you are single. I know it's probably common knowledge that the man pays, or the one who invites on the date. But I'm into equality so she can pay for her own food. I'll pay for dinner if she provides dessert. I actually paid on my last date ;). I'm a generous person except when people seem to demand it from me. Besides there are a thousand reasons to why I'm single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 (edited) But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.I come from a different generation. Thank goodness. I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. Edited October 11, 2014 by Lorraine 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.I come from a different generation. Thank goodness. I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. Thanks :hockeygoon: ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyclonus X-1 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 I offer to pay for everything. And if the offer is declined, I breathe an inward sigh of relief. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.I come from a different generation. Thank goodness. I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. Is this part of the progressive agenda?... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Principled Man Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Second date. Who pays? I really think it depends on who asked for the date. That's your starting point. It's similar to inviting people into your home. As the host, you typically offer food and drink (unless there is a prior "bring your own" agreement). If you offer to pay, but your date offers to help pay, then all the better! :ebert: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savagegrace26 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Wow. No wonder some of you are single. I know it's probably common knowledge that the man pays, or the one who invites on the date. But I'm into equality so she can pay for her own food. I'll pay for dinner if she provides dessert. I'm single because I like having different desserts with each meal. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chicken hawk Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 If its not pre decided when the check comes...what then? haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 If its not pre decided when the check comes...what then? hahaA moment of silence and alot of discomfort I would think.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ancient Ways Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 It depends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 I offer to pay for everything. And if the offer is declined, I breathe an inward sigh of relief.Yep. Right there. I have not been on a "date" date for almost 18 years now. Maybe some things have changed though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umoveme Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 :rfl: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maverick Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Are you paying, then? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatLightInYourEyes Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 Just plan it out beforehand. If you're short on cash, tell her. If she won't date you because of that, you're probably better off without her. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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