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#41 The Analog Grownup

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 01:48 PM

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View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

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View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
:cool: :d13:

Sh**! :facepalm: :lol:

You think it's too late to call her and remind her? :P

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 01:55 PM

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:48 PM, said:

View Posttroutman, on 13 October 2014 - 01:38 PM, said:

View PostNarpski, on 13 October 2014 - 01:15 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
:cool: :d13:

Sh**! :facepalm: :lol:

You think it's too late to call her and remind her? :P

It's your dime not mine. :lol:

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

#44 The Analog Grownup

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 02:21 PM

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

:popcorn:

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 02:36 PM

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 02:40 PM

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:36 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)

Life is back to normal!! :dweez: :7up: :D

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 02:41 PM

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:36 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)

I guess I'm lucky that my maturity level is stunted by about ten years. :gumby:

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 02:45 PM

View PostThatLightInYourEyes, on 13 October 2014 - 02:41 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:36 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)

I guess I'm lucky that my maturity level is stunted by about ten years. :gumby:

Let's all go out,

Who is paying? :huh: :D :7up:

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 03:07 PM

View Posttroutman, on 13 October 2014 - 02:45 PM, said:

View PostThatLightInYourEyes, on 13 October 2014 - 02:41 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:36 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)

I guess I'm lucky that my maturity level is stunted by about ten years. :gumby:

Let's all go out,

Who is paying? :huh: :D :7up:
There's quite a few of us in this thread and we've sort of determined that the man pays, so you will be paying. Also, consider that you must pay for three dates AND have the energy leftover to roll around with... what, five of us?

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 03:08 PM

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 03:09 PM

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 03:10 PM

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:36 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)
I truly am curious if and how the dating rules have changed. Like I said, I prefer that the man asks for and pays for the first three dates. Are all dates supposed to be dutch these days? Does this mean that funny business can happen on date #1 or date #2?

#56 troutman

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 03:10 PM

View PostJanie, on 13 October 2014 - 03:07 PM, said:

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View PostThatLightInYourEyes, on 13 October 2014 - 02:41 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:36 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 02:19 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)

I guess I'm lucky that my maturity level is stunted by about ten years. :gumby:

Let's all go out,

Who is paying? :huh: :D :7up:
There's quite a few of us in this thread and we've sort of determined that the man pays, so you will be paying. Also, consider that you must pay for three dates AND have the energy leftover to roll around with... what, five of us?

I will pay,

But thats it!! :hail: :lol:

#57 The Analog Grownup

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 03:14 PM

View PostJanie, on 13 October 2014 - 03:10 PM, said:

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View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:27 PM, said:

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View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)
I truly am curious if and how the dating rules have changed. Like I said, I prefer that the man asks for and pays for the first three dates. Are all dates supposed to be dutch these days? Does this mean that funny business can happen on date #1 or date #2?

I don't know if there are any rules. If there is I'm happily oblivious to them :). I think if there's mutual attraction it will sort itself regardless of who paid first. Give it time and it will square out anyway.

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 03:16 PM

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View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 02:09 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 13 October 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 12 October 2014 - 01:55 PM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)
I truly am curious if and how the dating rules have changed. Like I said, I prefer that the man asks for and pays for the first three dates. Are all dates supposed to be dutch these days? Does this mean that funny business can happen on date #1 or date #2?

Depends on the situation,

I would never expect a woman to pay. If things go well later on and she offers then I would take that as a good sign. :D

Edited by troutman, 13 October 2014 - 03:17 PM.


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Posted 13 October 2014 - 04:06 PM

View Posttroutman, on 13 October 2014 - 03:16 PM, said:

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View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 13 October 2014 - 01:11 PM, said:

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View Postumoveme, on 11 October 2014 - 07:23 PM, said:

The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

Seems fair

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!
I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something?  What you wrote is offensive.

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

I didn't mean to offend anyone.
I was not sure what she meant by that.  And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

It was pretty obvious.

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.  

Thank you for your apology.  :)
I truly am curious if and how the dating rules have changed. Like I said, I prefer that the man asks for and pays for the first three dates. Are all dates supposed to be dutch these days? Does this mean that funny business can happen on date #1 or date #2?

Depends on the situation,

I would never expect a woman to pay. If things go well later on and she offers then I would take that as a good sign. :D

I would always offer to pay because I never wanted to presume (but would always appreciate it when the guy paid anyhow).  The exception would be is if I had zero interest in another date—then I would pay my share to make sure nothing was "expected," either that night or in the future.

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Posted 13 October 2014 - 04:23 PM

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 11 October 2014 - 04:56 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 11 October 2014 - 04:19 PM, said:

Wow.  No wonder some of you are single.

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I know it's probably common knowledge that the man pays, or the one who invites on the date. But I'm into equality so she can pay for her own food.

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I'll pay for dinner if she provides dessert.

I actually paid on my last date ;). I'm a generous person except when people seem to demand it from me.

Besides there are a thousand reasons to why I'm single.

And one really small one. ;)




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