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#21 Slack jaw gaze

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 11:06 AM

Swap the male and female in the stories (including the honeymoon story), change the crush to Beyonce (or whomever) and gauge your reaction. (Remember, this inverted story ends up on a Beyonce fan board too, where he posts several time per week)

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 11:08 AM

View PostSlack jaw gaze, on 22 March 2014 - 11:06 AM, said:

Swap the male and female in the stories (including the honeymoon story), change the crush to Beyonce (or whomever) and gauge your reaction. (Remember, this inverted story ends up on a Beyonce fan board too, where he posts several time per week)

Did you even read what I wrote?

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 11:26 AM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:08 AM, said:

View PostSlack jaw gaze, on 22 March 2014 - 11:06 AM, said:

Swap the male and female in the stories (including the honeymoon story), change the crush to Beyonce (or whomever) and gauge your reaction. (Remember, this inverted story ends up on a Beyonce fan board too, where he posts several time per week)

Did you even read what I wrote?

He probably only read the original post and nothing beyond that.  Any time my husband (or boyfriend or whatever) had a celebrity crush it didn't bother me, honestly.  One time when we were at one of my co-workers house for a BBQ, the co-worker joked with me and said that he thought my husband was paying "an awful lot of attention" to a Katy Perry video that was on TV.  I just shrugged and went about my business.  It's a celebrity.  The chances of my husband having the chance to pork Katy Perry were a million to one, and that's being optimistic.  Those are about my chances of doing the dirty deed with Geddy.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 11:42 AM

View PostRushchick10, on 22 March 2014 - 11:26 AM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:08 AM, said:

View PostSlack jaw gaze, on 22 March 2014 - 11:06 AM, said:

Swap the male and female in the stories (including the honeymoon story), change the crush to Beyonce (or whomever) and gauge your reaction. (Remember, this inverted story ends up on a Beyonce fan board too, where he posts several time per week)

Did you even read what I wrote?

He probably only read the original post and nothing beyond that.  Any time my husband (or boyfriend or whatever) had a celebrity crush it didn't bother me, honestly.  One time when we were at one of my co-workers house for a BBQ, the co-worker joked with me and said that he thought my husband was paying "an awful lot of attention" to a Katy Perry video that was on TV.  I just shrugged and went about my business.  It's a celebrity.  The chances of my husband having the chance to pork Katy Perry were a million to one, and that's being optimistic.  Those are about my chances of doing the dirty deed with Geddy.

I never expected marriage to guarantee that my husband (or myself) not find other people attractive, not have crushes. What I expect is to know that he honors the agreement we've made in our marriage to be faithful to each other.

And I think that one of the things we love about Geddy is that he's such a good boy.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 11:49 AM

Hubby is usually pretty chill when it comes to my rock crushes lol I can even say the things I'd do to certain musicians, and he laughs and says "You would wear him out for sure!!!!" He knows it's just a harmless crush that will never, in a million years, EVER have the chance to turn into anything more than fan admiration. :P

There was one time I posted a picture of Richard Kruspe of Rammstein on facebook shirtless, and said "daaammnnnnnn, son" or something like that.
He did get upset but I wasn't having any of it. Suddenly it was an issue? I WILL post yummy shirtless pictures of rock stars whenever I feel like it lmao. He eventually apologized for it and said it was no big deal.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 11:52 AM

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 11:49 AM, said:

Hubby is usually pretty chill when it comes to my rock crushes lol I can even say the things I'd do to certain musicians, and he laughs and says "You would wear him out for sure!!!!" He knows it's just a harmless crush that will never, in a million years, EVER have the chance to turn into anything more than fan admiration. :P

There was one time I posted a picture of Richard Kruspe of Rammstein on facebook shirtless, and said "daaammnnnnnn, son" or something like that.
He did get upset but I wasn't having any of it. Suddenly it was an issue? I WILL post yummy shirtless pictures of rock stars whenever I feel like it lmao. He eventually apologized for it and said it was no big deal.

It's not a big deal. Also we had crushes before we were even together. It's not like I can turn off my Trent Reznor, Alan Rickman, or Steve Nash crushes just like that, hehehehe.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 11:59 AM

I must say, jealousy boggles the mind. At the end of the day, my husband comes home to me. He's allowed to look at other women and tell me how sexy he thinks they are. Hell, he can even be specific in what he finds attractive about them.
I've never been a jealous person- one time my sister in law was like "OMG he is staring at that woman over there!! you're OKAY with it?!" Um....yes...?
Is there a reason I should be upset? :huh:

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 12:01 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:52 AM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 11:49 AM, said:

Hubby is usually pretty chill when it comes to my rock crushes lol I can even say the things I'd do to certain musicians, and he laughs and says "You would wear him out for sure!!!!" He knows it's just a harmless crush that will never, in a million years, EVER have the chance to turn into anything more than fan admiration. :P

There was one time I posted a picture of Richard Kruspe of Rammstein on facebook shirtless, and said "daaammnnnnnn, son" or something like that.
He did get upset but I wasn't having any of it. Suddenly it was an issue? I WILL post yummy shirtless pictures of rock stars whenever I feel like it lmao. He eventually apologized for it and said it was no big deal.

It's not a big deal. Also we had crushes before we were even together. It's not like I can turn off my Trent Reznor, Alan Rickman, or Steve Nash crushes just like that, hehehehe.

Alan Rickman is DEFINITELY one of my stranger older man crushes hahahahha
OH MAN, Trent Reznor. om nom nom nom nom. AND Steve Nash?

...it's scary how alike our crushes are hahaha

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 12:11 PM

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 12:01 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:52 AM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 11:49 AM, said:

Hubby is usually pretty chill when it comes to my rock crushes lol I can even say the things I'd do to certain musicians, and he laughs and says "You would wear him out for sure!!!!" He knows it's just a harmless crush that will never, in a million years, EVER have the chance to turn into anything more than fan admiration. :P

There was one time I posted a picture of Richard Kruspe of Rammstein on facebook shirtless, and said "daaammnnnnnn, son" or something like that.
He did get upset but I wasn't having any of it. Suddenly it was an issue? I WILL post yummy shirtless pictures of rock stars whenever I feel like it lmao. He eventually apologized for it and said it was no big deal.

It's not a big deal. Also we had crushes before we were even together. It's not like I can turn off my Trent Reznor, Alan Rickman, or Steve Nash crushes just like that, hehehehe.

Alan Rickman is DEFINITELY one of my stranger older man crushes hahahahha
OH MAN, Trent Reznor. om nom nom nom nom. AND Steve Nash?

...it's scary how alike our crushes are hahaha

Yeah I've loved Alan since I was 8... and then he became Snape. That crush is never going to end hahaha.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 12:55 PM

I've been crushing on Trent Reznor since 1993. I pretty much grew up with his music and it very much influenced me and helped me through some tough shit. I pretty much consider him to be my first "love" just cause I was so young and it's still going.
My man has no problem with it. In fact when we decorated our place together he's the one who put up my HUGE muriel I have of him since 1995 in the bedroom. He loves NIN and thinks Trent is a genius too. I don't go around saying "OMFG TR IS SO f***ing HOT!" every day and night. If I did I think i'd have a huge problem with maturity and lost touch with reality on some level.  Those kinds of crushes are a lil bit scary.

Granted this is a fan forum and it's fun to cut loose a lil bit online with humour and EXTREME hyperbole. :lol:

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 12:56 PM

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I've been crushing on Trent Reznor since 1993. I pretty much grew up with his music and it very much influenced me and helped me through some tough shit. I pretty much consider him to be my first "love" just cause I was so young and it's still going.
My man has no problem with it. In fact when we decorated our place together he's the one who put up my HUGE muriel I have of him since 1995 in the bedroom. He loves NIN and thinks Trent is a genius too. I don't go around saying "OMFG TR IS SO f***ing HOT!" every day and night. If I did I think i'd have a huge problem with maturity and lost touch with reality on some level.  Those kinds of crushes are a lil bit scary.

Granted this is a fan forum and it's fun to cut loose a lil bit online with humour and EXTREME hyperbole. :lol:

Yeah exactly, I don't think that some people here realize that we aren't always like this lol.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 01:29 PM

Jealousy is fear of losing someone. I know this because I'm a jealous guy, and it was one of the things that drove my ex away.

Being brutally honest with oneself and therapy goes a long way.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 01:35 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 12:11 PM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 12:01 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:52 AM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 11:49 AM, said:

Hubby is usually pretty chill when it comes to my rock crushes lol I can even say the things I'd do to certain musicians, and he laughs and says "You would wear him out for sure!!!!" He knows it's just a harmless crush that will never, in a million years, EVER have the chance to turn into anything more than fan admiration. :P

There was one time I posted a picture of Richard Kruspe of Rammstein on facebook shirtless, and said "daaammnnnnnn, son" or something like that.
He did get upset but I wasn't having any of it. Suddenly it was an issue? I WILL post yummy shirtless pictures of rock stars whenever I feel like it lmao. He eventually apologized for it and said it was no big deal.

It's not a big deal. Also we had crushes before we were even together. It's not like I can turn off my Trent Reznor, Alan Rickman, or Steve Nash crushes just like that, hehehehe.

Alan Rickman is DEFINITELY one of my stranger older man crushes hahahahha
OH MAN, Trent Reznor. om nom nom nom nom. AND Steve Nash?

...it's scary how alike our crushes are hahaha

Yeah I've loved Alan since I was 8... and then he became Snape. That crush is never going to end hahaha.

Evil teacher with a deep voice and steely stare? Some strange fantasies came out of the Harry potter films, let me tell you lmao

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 01:36 PM

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 22 March 2014 - 01:29 PM, said:

Jealousy is fear of losing someone. I know this because I'm a jealous guy, and it was one of the things that drove my ex away.

Being brutally honest with oneself and therapy goes a long way.

Thank you for saying this :)
I really don't know what jealousy is like. I can't even force myself to care if my husband looks at another woman....I ask honestly, thanks for answering :)

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 02:00 PM

View PostThe Analog Grownup, on 22 March 2014 - 01:29 PM, said:

Jealousy is fear of losing someone. I know this because I'm a jealous guy, and it was one of the things that drove my ex away.

Being brutally honest with oneself and therapy goes a long way.

Ugh that reminds me of that stupid John Lennon song he likes to play "Jealous Guy". But yeah, it does ruin a relationship. It can push the other person away if it's unfounded.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 02:02 PM

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 01:35 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 12:11 PM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 12:01 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:52 AM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 11:49 AM, said:

Hubby is usually pretty chill when it comes to my rock crushes lol I can even say the things I'd do to certain musicians, and he laughs and says "You would wear him out for sure!!!!" He knows it's just a harmless crush that will never, in a million years, EVER have the chance to turn into anything more than fan admiration. :P

There was one time I posted a picture of Richard Kruspe of Rammstein on facebook shirtless, and said "daaammnnnnnn, son" or something like that.
He did get upset but I wasn't having any of it. Suddenly it was an issue? I WILL post yummy shirtless pictures of rock stars whenever I feel like it lmao. He eventually apologized for it and said it was no big deal.

It's not a big deal. Also we had crushes before we were even together. It's not like I can turn off my Trent Reznor, Alan Rickman, or Steve Nash crushes just like that, hehehehe.

Alan Rickman is DEFINITELY one of my stranger older man crushes hahahahha
OH MAN, Trent Reznor. om nom nom nom nom. AND Steve Nash?

...it's scary how alike our crushes are hahaha

Yeah I've loved Alan since I was 8... and then he became Snape. That crush is never going to end hahaha.

Evil teacher with a deep voice and steely stare? Some strange fantasies came out of the Harry potter films, let me tell you lmao

That voice, that nose, that hair, those robes....


Uhhhhhhhhh I'll be back later.

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 02:06 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 02:02 PM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 01:35 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 12:11 PM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 12:01 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:52 AM, said:

View Posthobo73, on 22 March 2014 - 11:49 AM, said:

Hubby is usually pretty chill when it comes to my rock crushes lol I can even say the things I'd do to certain musicians, and he laughs and says "You would wear him out for sure!!!!" He knows it's just a harmless crush that will never, in a million years, EVER have the chance to turn into anything more than fan admiration. :P

There was one time I posted a picture of Richard Kruspe of Rammstein on facebook shirtless, and said "daaammnnnnnn, son" or something like that.
He did get upset but I wasn't having any of it. Suddenly it was an issue? I WILL post yummy shirtless pictures of rock stars whenever I feel like it lmao. He eventually apologized for it and said it was no big deal.

It's not a big deal. Also we had crushes before we were even together. It's not like I can turn off my Trent Reznor, Alan Rickman, or Steve Nash crushes just like that, hehehehe.

Alan Rickman is DEFINITELY one of my stranger older man crushes hahahahha
OH MAN, Trent Reznor. om nom nom nom nom. AND Steve Nash?

...it's scary how alike our crushes are hahaha

Yeah I've loved Alan since I was 8... and then he became Snape. That crush is never going to end hahaha.

Evil teacher with a deep voice and steely stare? Some strange fantasies came out of the Harry potter films, let me tell you lmao

That voice, that nose, that hair, those robes....


Uhhhhhhhhh I'll be back later.

UM....me too. I think I just got caught passing notes in class and I've got detention! LMAO

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 05:53 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:08 AM, said:

View PostSlack jaw gaze, on 22 March 2014 - 11:06 AM, said:

Swap the male and female in the stories (including the honeymoon story), change the crush to Beyonce (or whomever) and gauge your reaction. (Remember, this inverted story ends up on a Beyonce fan board too, where he posts several time per week)

Did you even read what I wrote?
An empathy thought experiment was a crazy idea in retrospect. Who has time for that?

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 06:12 PM

View PostSlack jaw gaze, on 22 March 2014 - 05:53 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 22 March 2014 - 11:08 AM, said:

View PostSlack jaw gaze, on 22 March 2014 - 11:06 AM, said:

Swap the male and female in the stories (including the honeymoon story), change the crush to Beyonce (or whomever) and gauge your reaction. (Remember, this inverted story ends up on a Beyonce fan board too, where he posts several time per week)

Did you even read what I wrote?
An empathy thought experiment was a crazy idea in retrospect. Who has time for that?

Well you obviously have time for all of the other gibberish on here so...

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Posted 22 March 2014 - 06:28 PM

Must be awful to be in a relationship with someone who is so insecure.





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