Rushchick10 Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 So, some of you that are close to me already know this, but I am getting a divorce. Please, those of you who don't believe in divorce, or think that it is "wrong" or a "sin," refrain from commenting here. The reason is, I felt myself going into a very VERY dark place. Without getting too specific, I had started turning to some unhealthy ways of coping. He's not a bad guy, and I'm not a bad gal...we were just bad together. A bit of venting is needed on my part because I am experiencing some very strange emotions over this. Anyone willing to listen? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realomind Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 My thoughts are with you Jaime, I know it's pretty tough going (my situation is particularly f**ked up lol), you seem like a pretty strong woman and you have the coolest little boy! I really wish you all the best and may it be as straightforward as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushchick10 Posted March 4, 2011 Author Share Posted March 4, 2011 QUOTE (realomind @ Mar 4 2011, 01:22 PM) My thoughts are with you Jaime, I know it's pretty tough going (my situation is particularly f**ked up lol), you seem like a pretty strong woman and you have the coolest little boy! I really wish you all the best and may it be as straightforward as possible. Thanks. The legalities will be pretty easy...we're in agreement on everything (dividing property, etc.). It's my son that has me worried. I just don't want him hurt. I know it will happen, because they are so close (my soon-to-be ex is not my son's biological dad, but has been lil' Lerxst's daddy since 3). But, I am doing everything I can to make it as easy for my son as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaye Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 I'm sorry to hear that, Jamie.. I didn't realise I wish you luck getting through everything, and in the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FoxxiStarr Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 I said this already to you and I will again - I am here for you whenever you need me. Call me if you want to talk ok? Love ya Sis x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Babycat Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 I feel awful for you, Jaime - I had no idea... I hope everything works out for both you & your son. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HowItIs Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Oh, Jaime I'm sorry. You bet I'm willing to listen. So vent away, Hon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 2 User(s) are reading this topic (0 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users): Spike, Rushchick10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushchick10 Posted March 5, 2011 Author Share Posted March 5, 2011 QUOTE (Spike @ Mar 4 2011, 07:25 PM) 2 User(s) are reading this topic (0 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users): Spike, Rushchick10 Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushchick10 Posted March 5, 2011 Author Share Posted March 5, 2011 QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 4 2011, 05:14 PM) I said this already to you and I will again - I am here for you whenever you need me. Call me if you want to talk ok? Love ya Sis x You're awesome! I love ya too! I don't need no steenking husband to give me an excuse to get to Scotland! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen of Megadon Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 ah darlin...been there done that. Sorry you are going through this. Please do, vent away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FoxxiStarr Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 5 2011, 01:03 AM) QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 4 2011, 05:14 PM) I said this already to you and I will again - I am here for you whenever you need me. Call me if you want to talk ok? Love ya Sis x You're awesome! I love ya too! I don't need no steenking husband to give me an excuse to get to Scotland! That's my girl! Get yours and Alex's asses on a plane - pronto! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushchick10 Posted March 5, 2011 Author Share Posted March 5, 2011 QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 5 2011, 04:32 AM) QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 5 2011, 01:03 AM) QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 4 2011, 05:14 PM) I said this already to you and I will again - I am here for you whenever you need me. Call me if you want to talk ok? Love ya Sis x You're awesome! I love ya too! I don't need no steenking husband to give me an excuse to get to Scotland! That's my girl! Get yours and Alex's asses on a plane - pronto! Lil' Lerxst and I shall be looking for airfare. Would you like for me to get in touch with the elder Lerxst to see when he is available for a trip? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FoxxiStarr Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 5 2011, 09:48 AM) QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 5 2011, 04:32 AM) QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 5 2011, 01:03 AM) QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 4 2011, 05:14 PM) I said this already to you and I will again - I am here for you whenever you need me. Call me if you want to talk ok? Love ya Sis x You're awesome! I love ya too! I don't need no steenking husband to give me an excuse to get to Scotland! That's my girl! Get yours and Alex's asses on a plane - pronto! Lil' Lerxst and I shall be looking for airfare. Would you like for me to get in touch with the elder Lerxst to see when he is available for a trip? Yes! I won't have seen him since May so get him to fly you first class. Tell him to bring his Ledderhosen! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IChoseFreeWill Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 I am so sorry you are going through this. It is good that you two agree on the legalities, and that it seems that you will be able to have an amicable divorce and stay in good terms. But it is still painful- it is the end of something you both worked hard on. Sending many hugs here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realomind Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 5 2011, 11:17 AM) QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 5 2011, 09:48 AM) QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 5 2011, 04:32 AM) QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 5 2011, 01:03 AM) QUOTE (FoxxiStarr @ Mar 4 2011, 05:14 PM) I said this already to you and I will again - I am here for you whenever you need me. Call me if you want to talk ok? Love ya Sis x You're awesome! I love ya too! I don't need no steenking husband to give me an excuse to get to Scotland! That's my girl! Get yours and Alex's asses on a plane - pronto! Lil' Lerxst and I shall be looking for airfare. Would you like for me to get in touch with the elder Lerxst to see when he is available for a trip? Yes! I won't have seen him since May so get him to fly you first class. Tell him to bring his Ledderhosen! Ooh, could this be another attendee for the May 14th meet-up? Partaay! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1 of the 7 Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Thinking of you all and wishing you well as you move forward Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thing2jordan Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Speaking as a child of divorce, it is hard at first, but your son will probably see that you're better off and will understand. I'm sorry you are having to go through this, but glad that you won't have to be in that situation anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 4 2011, 10:52 AM) So, some of you that are close to me already know this, but I am getting a divorce. Please, those of you who don't believe in divorce, or think that it is "wrong" or a "sin," refrain from commenting here. The reason is, I felt myself going into a very VERY dark place. Without getting too specific, I had started turning to some unhealthy ways of coping. He's not a bad guy, and I'm not a bad gal...we were just bad together. A bit of venting is needed on my part because I am experiencing some very strange emotions over this. Anyone willing to listen? You're making the right decision and I'll be here for you if you need to vent in private. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushchick10 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 QUOTE (Janie @ Mar 7 2011, 08:54 PM) QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 4 2011, 10:52 AM) So, some of you that are close to me already know this, but I am getting a divorce. Please, those of you who don't believe in divorce, or think that it is "wrong" or a "sin," refrain from commenting here. The reason is, I felt myself going into a very VERY dark place. Without getting too specific, I had started turning to some unhealthy ways of coping. He's not a bad guy, and I'm not a bad gal...we were just bad together. A bit of venting is needed on my part because I am experiencing some very strange emotions over this. Anyone willing to listen? You're making the right decision and I'll be here for you if you need to vent in private. I'll probably take you up on that. Thanks. The hardest part of this whole thing is how it is affecting my son. He's so sensitive to people and their emotions. I am doing everything I can to keep him in good spirits. It's tough, though. But, deep down, I know it would have been more damaging to him for me to continue down that dark path. Good thing he and I have some Rush planned together. It's not the first time that it's just been him and me, but it's different this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FoxxiStarr Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 I'm glad we talked the other night but if you need me to phone you/Skype let me know. Luv ya sis. Love to li'l Lerxst too xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VarianStar Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 4 2011, 01:52 PM) A bit of venting is needed on my part because I am experiencing some very strange emotions over this. Anyone willing to listen? I'm here too. Feel free to PM me if you need to talk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Babycat Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 QUOTE (VarianStar @ Mar 8 2011, 01:47 PM) QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Mar 4 2011, 01:52 PM) A bit of venting is needed on my part because I am experiencing some very strange emotions over this. Anyone willing to listen? I'm here too. Feel free to PM me if you need to talk. Count me in too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Cat 3 Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 Rushchick10, I just wanted to write to let you know that I am so sorry for everything that you are going through. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you must be experiencing. Just wanted to reach out, give you a big cyber-hug and to let you know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayers. There are so many people here who love and care for you, please don't hesitate to reach out to one of us if need anything. ~Peace and Grace, RGLT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheBlonde Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 I'm sorry to hear this. But you have to do what is best for you and for Alex. You're a mama bear...you'll do just fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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