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#21 AeroZach2112

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:42 PM

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I believe that 2 1/2 inch heels is too much. Personally, I myself don't see a problem with that.

huh?

I was speaking from the general standpoint of society. Perhaps I didn't word that correctly.

I don't see it as an issue myself. However, when I say I see a problem with it, I lean more towards how other people would view it, not myself.

Apologies if that wasn't clear.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:43 PM

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confused13.gif Alright, I substituted sandals for 1 inch wedge dress shoes. Better, I guess?

I still don't understand why wearing short anything with high heels is skanky, but wearing the same thing, showing the same amount of skin with flats in considered "conservative/tasteful".

Because when hookers wear short shorts/mini mini skirts they also wear high high heels, NOT flats or low heels. It's like a hooker uniform.
So regardless of whether you intend to sexualize yourself or not, people/society will view it that way. Maybe because you're young you're not aware of the stereotype?

As mentioned high heels make a woman's legs/butt look more attractive to the average male. I would think the average person, male and female, would see it as "why dress like a hooker if you're not a slut?"

All that said, if you want to rebel against the stereotype, good luck.

I am aware of the stereotype, I guess I am just naive in the fact that I don't associate 2 and 1/2 inch heels with hookers. I associate 4-5-6 inch heels with hookers.

But the fact is...its viewed as, high heels are fine, just not with a mini skirt, (infact, I think the proper term for what I was wearing was a "mini skort" laugh.gif). But with anything else they're okay. If they're trashy, they're trashy. Not, oh, they're only trashy this way.

*sigh* whatever...I guess I'll never understand.

Also, I thought high heels with shorts was quickly becoming the norm. I've seen many girls wear shorts with heels who I wouldn't consider trashy or skanky at all...so I don't know.

I guess I'm just in the dark on this one.

I think it really depends on the shoes and the skirt?  Sometimes things just look less trashy together than other things, you know?  


Say you're wearing really short denim shorts (tight-ish too) and really flashy shoes, like bright platforms -- might be considered boderline hooker.  But, say you have a nice pair of trouser shorts (made of twill or something, like a khaki) and more subdued heels, like black and brown, no matter the height -- that would look classy.  Not sure if you can follow me or not.  


In the end, I think it's up to your judgement and how you pull it off.  I wore this nice beige top one time that I and many others thought was dressy looking with nice pants, but my dad thought looked trashy  laugh.gif   But if you think you looked alright, I'm sure no one is going to mistake you for a call girl.  And if any man cat calls after you, tell them they do not need to stare and f*ck off  yes.gif

Haha, I understand wear you're coming from. My parents think everything except shapeless baggy-ass clothes are skanky and trashy. tongue.gif



On another note...

I mean, its not like the skirt/shorts in question are like borderline showing my ass. It falls like...just below my fingertips.

If you are wearing short up your ass shorts/tight ass short short mini-skirts, that makes you trampy automatically...without the help of high heels.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:44 PM

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Say uh.......maybe you could post some pics....you know, as a visual aid, so we know exactly what you are talking about........

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:45 PM

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I guess I'll be a little more careful.

you should be because high heels are a gateway to more serious types of footwear biggrin.gif  

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:47 PM

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I guess I'll be a little more careful.

you should be because high heels are a gateway to more serious types of footwear biggrin.gif

Oh yeah? Like what?


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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:48 PM

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Say uh.......maybe you could post some pics....you know, as a visual aid, so we know exactly what you are talking about........

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:50 PM

QUOTE (GeddyLeefan2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 02:44 PM)
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Say uh.......maybe you could post some pics....you know, as a visual aid, so we know exactly what you are talking about........

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I think based on the title alone, at some point every guy on the damn forum is gonna be attracted to this thread biggrin.gif  

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:51 PM

QUOTE (AeroZach2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 02:50 PM)
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Say uh.......maybe you could post some pics....you know, as a visual aid, so we know exactly what you are talking about........

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sarcasm.gif How did I know this is a thread that would attract you.


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I think based on the title alone, at some point every guy on the damn forum is gonna be attracted to this thread biggrin.gif

That's why I posted it in New World Women. tongue.gif

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:57 PM

QUOTE (GeddyLeefan2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 02:43 PM)


I mean, its not like the skirt/shorts in question are like borderline showing my ass. It falls like...just below my fingertips.

Personally, I wouldn't worry, but maybe I'ma tramp?  rofl3.gif  

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:59 PM

QUOTE (GeddyLeefan2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 12:44 PM)
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cause you know i love giving honest advice without the slightest interest in the person asking the questions biggrin.gif

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:00 PM

QUOTE (GeddyLeefan2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 12:51 PM)
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Say uh.......maybe you could post some pics....you know, as a visual aid, so we know exactly what you are talking about........

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sarcasm.gif How did I know this is a thread that would attract you.


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I think based on the title alone, at some point every guy on the damn forum is gonna be attracted to this thread biggrin.gif

That's why I posted it in New World Women. tongue.gif

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:03 PM

Bottom line is you should do what makes you happy, and what you're comfortable with - I hope I didn't imply otherwise.  I was just trying to explain why you might get certain comments.

I've been known to wear skirts entirely too short for someone my age.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:03 PM

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Say uh.......maybe you could post some pics....you know, as a visual aid, so we know exactly what you are talking about........

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:03 PM

QUOTE (daveyt @ Jun 6 2008, 03:00 PM)
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QUOTE (GeddyLeefan2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 02:44 PM)
QUOTE (daveyt @ Jun 6 2008, 02:34 PM)
QUOTE (-D-RocK- @ Jun 5 2008, 02:32 PM)
Say uh.......maybe you could post some pics....you know, as a visual aid, so we know exactly what you are talking about........

goodpost.gif

sarcasm.gif How did I know this is a thread that would attract you.


tongue.gif

I think based on the title alone, at some point every guy on the damn forum is gonna be attracted to this thread biggrin.gif

That's why I posted it in New World Women. tongue.gif

smart! at least you'll have some back up yes.gif

It looks like its the actual women who have given me the best advice. Like I wanted. Not...post pics. sarcasm.gif


But, that's all I can expect out of SOME men.
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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:06 PM

QUOTE (GhostGirl @ Jun 6 2008, 04:03 PM)
I've been known to wear skirts entirely too short for someone my age.


Again, please post some pics and let us be the judge of that.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:06 PM

QUOTE (GeddyLeefan2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 01:03 PM)
It looks like its the actual women who have given me the best advice. Like I wanted. Not...post pics. sarcasm.gif But, that's all I can expect out of SOME men.
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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:07 PM

QUOTE (mazyyz @ Jun 6 2008, 03:06 PM)
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I've been known to wear skirts entirely too short for someone my age.


Again, please post some pics and let us be the judge of that.

No thanks.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:10 PM

QUOTE (daveyt @ Jun 6 2008, 03:06 PM)
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It looks like its the actual women who have given me the best advice. Like I wanted. Not...post pics. sarcasm.gif But, that's all I can expect out of SOME men.
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don't get saucy with me bernaise!

I'll get saucy with you whenever I please.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:10 PM

QUOTE (GhostGirl @ Jun 6 2008, 01:07 PM)
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QUOTE (GhostGirl @ Jun 6 2008, 04:03 PM)
I've been known to wear skirts entirely too short for someone my age.


Again, please post some pics and let us be the judge of that.

No thanks.

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Posted 06 June 2008 - 03:12 PM

QUOTE (GeddyLeefan2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 01:10 PM)
QUOTE (daveyt @ Jun 6 2008, 03:06 PM)
QUOTE (GeddyLeefan2112 @ Jun 6 2008, 01:03 PM)
It looks like its the actual women who have given me the best advice. Like I wanted. Not...post pics. sarcasm.gif But, that's all I can expect out of SOME men.
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don't get saucy with me bernaise!

I'll get saucy with you whenever I please.

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