What is Wrong - extremely Wrong - is when people who do have children patronize and even criticize those who don't. The patronizing is the worst part. People get on their self-righteous high horses and assume that childless people are unhappy, which leads to patronizing comments and advice.
I just had that yesterday from my Father-in-Law
he seemed surprised when I told him to go f**k himself
And there's the rub..it's never from people who seem genuinely happy with their lot...it's like they resent the fact you don't have to experience their misery.
Yeah it does seem like that.
This one acquaintance has tried to guilt me into having kids by pointing to the fact that Japan’s population is decreasing due to couples delaying marriage or having fewer kids or not getting married at all. As if that’s going to make me start having kids. I should start having kids because Japan’s population is decreasing?! f**k off! Seriously, that was her bullshit reasoning
I got this too...he kept saying "what if everyone thought like you?. There wouldn't be any people in the country",
I pointed out to him that everyone DOESN'T think like me, and that his argument was a false equivalence, but he didn't get it.