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Poll: Preferred Age Differences (20 member(s) have cast votes)

Ladies, which age do you prefer your men to be?

  1. Same age as you, give or take 5 years. (8 votes [26.67%])

    Percentage of vote: 26.67%

  2. Older than you 5+ years (6 votes [20.00%])

    Percentage of vote: 20.00%

  3. Older than you 10+ years (4 votes [13.33%])

    Percentage of vote: 13.33%

  4. Older than you 15+ years (4 votes [13.33%])

    Percentage of vote: 13.33%

  5. Older than you 20+ years and beyond (4 votes [13.33%])

    Percentage of vote: 13.33%

  6. Younger than you 5+ years (1 votes [3.33%])

    Percentage of vote: 3.33%

  7. Younger than you 10+ years (2 votes [6.67%])

    Percentage of vote: 6.67%

  8. Younger than you 15+ years (1 votes [3.33%])

    Percentage of vote: 3.33%

  9. Younger than you 20+ years and beyond (0 votes [0.00%])

    Percentage of vote: 0.00%

  10. I like em' just eligible to vote. (0 votes [0.00%])

    Percentage of vote: 0.00%

  11. I like em' just eligible to drink. (0 votes [0.00%])

    Percentage of vote: 0.00%

  12. I like em' geriatric and in need of a sponge bath and tapioca pudding. (0 votes [0.00%])

    Percentage of vote: 0.00%

  13. I like em' rich and almost dead. (0 votes [0.00%])

    Percentage of vote: 0.00%

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#41 Lady April

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Posted 03 April 2014 - 09:35 PM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 03 April 2014 - 05:16 PM, said:

View PostLady April, on 03 April 2014 - 02:55 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 03 April 2014 - 11:52 AM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 02 April 2014 - 11:45 AM, said:

I guess I really don't care as long as he is smart, funny, secure and really "gets me."
Thats the trick. I was lucky enough to find someone who REALLY gets me... not gets me for a while and then says "You're too f***ing crazy for me to deal with!" or "Why can't you be normal?!" He's seen my crazy and loves me still. Encourages me to be the woman I want to be and is so supportive all of the time.  It doesn't matter our ages are so different we are exactly who we need in our lives (both ways) and our relationship is our business.

She said 'both ways' :P
Now why did I know YOU would be all over that lil comment?! :lol:

Because you know my twisted mind baby! :P

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Posted 03 April 2014 - 09:39 PM

View PostLady April, on 03 April 2014 - 09:19 PM, said:

View PostNarpski, on 03 April 2014 - 11:41 AM, said:

View PostLady April, on 03 April 2014 - 11:37 AM, said:

View PostNarpski, on 03 April 2014 - 11:31 AM, said:

View PostLady April, on 03 April 2014 - 10:11 AM, said:

When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's I dug older dudes but the more I am hatin' this getting older bs I find myself looking at boys much younger than me thinking... young and dumb will do just fine and  no ties, they can keep their drama.
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Totally :lol: but first I have to deal with the most ungratifying marriage ever... :unsure:
Depending on how you define "ungratifying", you may be preaching to the choir... :unsure:

Jeez Narp, we can sing in harmony then... :)
Only if you can sing. I sing better with my mic turned off like Mr. Lifeson..... :lol:

#43 Ya_Big_Tree

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Posted 03 April 2014 - 10:43 PM

View PostLady April, on 03 April 2014 - 09:35 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 03 April 2014 - 05:16 PM, said:

View PostLady April, on 03 April 2014 - 02:55 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 03 April 2014 - 11:52 AM, said:

View Postumoveme, on 02 April 2014 - 11:45 AM, said:

I guess I really don't care as long as he is smart, funny, secure and really "gets me."
Thats the trick. I was lucky enough to find someone who REALLY gets me... not gets me for a while and then says "You're too f***ing crazy for me to deal with!" or "Why can't you be normal?!" He's seen my crazy and loves me still. Encourages me to be the woman I want to be and is so supportive all of the time.  It doesn't matter our ages are so different we are exactly who we need in our lives (both ways) and our relationship is our business.

She said 'both ways' :P
Now why did I know YOU would be all over that lil comment?! :lol:

Because you know my twisted mind baby! :P
That I do Lady... that I do...

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Posted 10 April 2014 - 07:48 PM

I've always dated men older than I am.



Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am.  We have a great relationship most of the time.  People usually guess wrong on our ages.  I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in  his late 30's...   :heart: :rose:


The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.

#45 Ya_Big_Tree

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Posted 10 April 2014 - 08:13 PM

View PostAlsgalpal, on 10 April 2014 - 07:48 PM, said:

I've always dated men older than I am.



Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am.  We have a great relationship most of the time.  People usually guess wrong on our ages.  I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in  his late 30's...   :heart: :rose:


The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.
Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :lol:

Right on!  :D

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Posted 11 April 2014 - 12:55 AM

Age is just a number, but I still say , if you're a guy in his mid to late 30s, and you date someone in their early 20s, chances are it won't work. I think it depends on where each person is in their life.. A couple with a , say 15 year age difference, that are 55 and 40, is a hell of a lot different than 22 and 37.

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Posted 11 April 2014 - 12:34 PM

View PostXanadoood, on 11 April 2014 - 12:55 AM, said:

Age is just a number, but I still say , if you're a guy in his mid to late 30s, and you date someone in their early 20s, chances are it won't work. I think it depends on where each person is in their life.. A couple with a , say 15 year age difference, that are 55 and 40, is a hell of a lot different than 22 and 37.

And yet for men around 30 it's so easy to pick up girls around 20 years old.

#48 Alsgalpal

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Posted 11 April 2014 - 01:49 PM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 10 April 2014 - 08:13 PM, said:

View PostAlsgalpal, on 10 April 2014 - 07:48 PM, said:

I've always dated men older than I am.



Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am.  We have a great relationship most of the time.  People usually guess wrong on our ages.  I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in  his late 30's...   :heart: :rose:


The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.
Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :lol:

Right on!  :D


Yeah, he is!  :wub:  Did you get to meet him too when I met you?   He's just the most beautiful person I've ever laid eyes on...


I really wish I could hang out with you again!  That would be awesome.

#49 Ya_Big_Tree

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Posted 11 April 2014 - 05:07 PM

View PostAlsgalpal, on 11 April 2014 - 01:49 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 10 April 2014 - 08:13 PM, said:

View PostAlsgalpal, on 10 April 2014 - 07:48 PM, said:

I've always dated men older than I am.



Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am.  We have a great relationship most of the time.  People usually guess wrong on our ages.  I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in  his late 30's...   :heart: :rose:


The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.
Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :lol:

Right on!  :D


Yeah, he is!  :wub:  Did you get to meet him too when I met you?   He's just the most beautiful person I've ever laid eyes on...


I really wish I could hang out with you again!  That would be awesome.
I think I did meet him briefly... was kinda crazy with all the Rush Nuts there. :lol:  I doubt he or even YOU would recognize me now.
BTW have you started the 21 day raw challenge yet? I can send you some recipes to make it really interesting and fun if you want. Or just look at "my" Raw Food Diet thread... I've been posting my recipes I've been coming up with in there.

#50 Alsgalpal

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Posted 04 May 2014 - 12:35 PM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 11 April 2014 - 05:07 PM, said:

View PostAlsgalpal, on 11 April 2014 - 01:49 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 10 April 2014 - 08:13 PM, said:

View PostAlsgalpal, on 10 April 2014 - 07:48 PM, said:

I've always dated men older than I am.



Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am.  We have a great relationship most of the time.  People usually guess wrong on our ages.  I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in  his late 30's...   :heart: :rose:


The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.
Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :lol:

Right on!  :D


Yeah, he is!  :wub:  Did you get to meet him too when I met you?   He's just the most beautiful person I've ever laid eyes on...


I really wish I could hang out with you again!  That would be awesome.
I think I did meet him briefly... was kinda crazy with all the Rush Nuts there. :lol:  I doubt he or even YOU would recognize me now.
BTW have you started the 21 day raw challenge yet? I can send you some recipes to make it really interesting and fun if you want. Or just look at "my" Raw Food Diet thread... I've been posting my recipes I've been coming up with in there.

Hey, I just saw this.  I didn't start it because I accidentally deleted the email you sent me.  :(

#51 Ya_Big_Tree

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Posted 04 May 2014 - 12:41 PM

View PostAlsgalpal, on 04 May 2014 - 12:35 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 11 April 2014 - 05:07 PM, said:

View PostAlsgalpal, on 11 April 2014 - 01:49 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 10 April 2014 - 08:13 PM, said:

View PostAlsgalpal, on 10 April 2014 - 07:48 PM, said:

I've always dated men older than I am.



Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am.  We have a great relationship most of the time.  People usually guess wrong on our ages.  I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in  his late 30's...   :heart: :rose:


The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.
Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :lol:

Right on!  :D


Yeah, he is!  :wub:  Did you get to meet him too when I met you?   He's just the most beautiful person I've ever laid eyes on...


I really wish I could hang out with you again!  That would be awesome.
I think I did meet him briefly... was kinda crazy with all the Rush Nuts there. :lol:  I doubt he or even YOU would recognize me now.
BTW have you started the 21 day raw challenge yet? I can send you some recipes to make it really interesting and fun if you want. Or just look at "my" Raw Food Diet thread... I've been posting my recipes I've been coming up with in there.

Hey, I just saw this.  I didn't start it because I accidentally deleted the email you sent me.  :(
I see how it is... :P

Just kidding... try these: http://www.fullyraw....meal-plan/c143m that's to sign up for the 21 day challenge.  * If you feel you can't do it, stop and just try doing it gradually. I found it a hard first 4 days and then after I felt a lot better. By week 2 I was noticing a lot of stuff detoxing even through my skin and hair (kinda gross I know but necessary) and after that I noticed my pain with digestion pretty much gone, which I hadn't experienced in years.

There are some really kick ass Raw Vegan Food blogs out there too with awesome recipes. :)

#52 Alsgalpal

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Posted 05 May 2014 - 07:38 PM

:lol:  It looks like your sig is farting a could of hockey penguin.  :LMAO:


Thank you for the link.  Right now, I'm so sick that the thought of detoxing my body even more is frightening...  I bet that's why I AM so sick... I've just started really working out, eating clean and nixing all the uncessecary chemicals out of my body while working out to lose the fat.  I'm probably going back through the levels of illness on my way back up....

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Posted 05 May 2014 - 07:42 PM

I want Alsgals to reach 116 years old then I'll be ready for her! :D-13:

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Posted 06 May 2014 - 09:13 PM

Er... I'm betting I'll be damn brittle by then! :lol:

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Posted 06 May 2014 - 09:15 PM

View PostAlsgalpal, on 06 May 2014 - 09:13 PM, said:

Er... I'm betting I'll be damn brittle by then! :lol:
All the better! :drool:

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Posted 06 May 2014 - 10:18 PM

View PostAlsgalpal, on 05 May 2014 - 07:38 PM, said:

:lol:  It looks like your sig is farting a could of hockey penguin.  :LMAO:


Thank you for the link.  Right now, I'm so sick that the thought of detoxing my body even more is frightening...  I bet that's why I AM so sick... I've just started really working out, eating clean and nixing all the uncessecary chemicals out of my body while working out to lose the fat.  I'm probably going back through the levels of illness on my way back up....

I wasn't going to say anything but that's what I kept thinking every time I saw it. :LMAO: :LMAO: :LMAO: :LMAO:

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Posted 06 May 2014 - 10:49 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 06 May 2014 - 10:18 PM, said:

View PostAlsgalpal, on 05 May 2014 - 07:38 PM, said:

:lol:  It looks like your sig is farting a could of hockey penguin.  :LMAO:


Thank you for the link.  Right now, I'm so sick that the thought of detoxing my body even more is frightening...  I bet that's why I AM so sick... I've just started really working out, eating clean and nixing all the uncessecary chemicals out of my body while working out to lose the fat.  I'm probably going back through the levels of illness on my way back up....

I wasn't going to say anything but that's what I kept thinking every time I saw it. :LMAO: :LMAO: :LMAO: :LMAO:
Alright ALREADY!!!!  :P
I changed it to another artistic representation of me.

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Posted 30 August 2014 - 10:29 PM

I chose 20+ years or older. I find men in their forties very attractive. :)

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Posted 30 August 2014 - 11:52 PM

I never answered this the first time around so i will now.  I prefer guys a little younger than me.  Up until I got out of my first marriage at age 30 I always dated guys a few years older.  Then i started dating younger guys, with a couple that were 13 years younger.  My husband is 3.5 years younger than me.

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Posted 31 August 2014 - 07:16 AM

View PostIntermolecular Reality, on 30 August 2014 - 10:29 PM, said:

I chose 20+ years or older. I find men in their forties very attractive. :)

View Postx1yyz, on 30 August 2014 - 11:52 PM, said:

I never answered this the first time around so i will now.  I prefer guys a little younger than me.  Up until I got out of my first marriage at age 30 I always dated guys a few years older.  Then i started dating younger guys, with a couple that were 13 years younger.  My husband is 3.5 years younger than me.

Hmmmm...

I think I fit both.

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