I don't like being surprised. I don't like being unprepared. And while you really can't prepare for everything, and obsession doesn't really help, it would just make one crazy (probably). I feel being "reasonably" prepared is ok. Small portable generator, a couple gallons of gas, spare water, food, propane cooking equipment (camping stuff) some canned stuff, to last a week maybe. But also being prepared for other things, death of a loved one, for example. Just being aware and respectful of what "can" happen... without being worried or stressed about stuff. You like being surprised? Or do you prefer to be "ready" for what may come your way?