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  1. 1. Ladies, which age do you prefer your men to be?

    • Same age as you, give or take 5 years.
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    • Older than you 5+ years
      6
    • Older than you 10+ years
      4
    • Older than you 15+ years
      4
    • Older than you 20+ years and beyond
      4
    • Younger than you 5+ years
      1
    • Younger than you 10+ years
      2
    • Younger than you 15+ years
      1
    • Younger than you 20+ years and beyond
      0
    • I like em' just eligible to vote.
      0
    • I like em' just eligible to drink.
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    • I like em' geriatric and in need of a sponge bath and tapioca pudding.
      0
    • I like em' rich and almost dead.
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Lady April

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When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's I dug older dudes but the more I am hatin' this getting older bs I find myself looking at boys much younger than me thinking... young and dumb will do just fine and no ties, they can keep their drama.

Booty call bay yeah! :haz:

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I'm in the 10+ range. I'm 26 and usually find that guys in their late 30s or early 40s are more my speed. Plus I've always found older men to be sexy.

Ya_Big_Tree
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I don't see age. I see the person.   Age is just a number.

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I guess I really don't care as long as he is smart, funny, secure and really "gets me."

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When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's I dug older dudes but the more I am hatin' this getting older bs I find myself looking at boys much younger than me thinking... young and dumb will do just fine and no ties, they can keep their drama.

Booty call bay yeah! :haz:

You gotta love anyone, male or female, who knows what they want and like and go for it..... :cheers: to life and the pursuit of happiness.... :) You only get one
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When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's I dug older dudes but the more I am hatin' this getting older bs I find myself looking at boys much younger than me thinking... young and dumb will do just fine and no ties, they can keep their drama.

Booty call bay yeah! :haz:

You gotta love anyone, male or female, who knows what they want and like and go for it..... :cheers: to life and the pursuit of happiness.... :) You only get one

 

Totally :LOL: but first I have to deal with the most ungratifying marriage ever... :unsure:

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When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's I dug older dudes but the more I am hatin' this getting older bs I find myself looking at boys much younger than me thinking... young and dumb will do just fine and no ties, they can keep their drama.

Booty call bay yeah! :haz:

You gotta love anyone, male or female, who knows what they want and like and go for it..... :cheers: to life and the pursuit of happiness.... :) You only get one

 

Totally :LOL: but first I have to deal with the most ungratifying marriage ever... :unsure:

Depending on how you define "ungratifying", you may be preaching to the choir... :unsure:
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When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's I dug older dudes but the more I am hatin' this getting older bs I find myself looking at boys much younger than me thinking... young and dumb will do just fine and no ties, they can keep their drama.

Booty call bay yeah! :haz:

You gotta love anyone, male or female, who knows what they want and like and go for it..... :cheers: to life and the pursuit of happiness.... :) You only get one

 

Totally :LOL: but first I have to deal with the most ungratifying marriage ever... :unsure:

Depending on how you define "ungratifying", you may be preaching to the choir... :unsure:

 

Yeah exactly lol. Though I do have to say mine is like... 5% better...

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I guess I really don't care as long as he is smart, funny, secure and really "gets me."

Thats the trick. I was lucky enough to find someone who REALLY gets me... not gets me for a while and then says "You're too f***ing crazy for me to deal with!" or "Why can't you be normal?!" He's seen my crazy and loves me still. Encourages me to be the woman I want to be and is so supportive all of the time. It doesn't matter our ages are so different we are exactly who we need in our lives (both ways) and our relationship is our business.

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Seems kinda silly to me.. How can you judge a person is based on their age? Isn't that generalizing?

 

I'm 43.. Ok ladies.. How do you like me so far! Lol

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Seems kinda silly to me.. How can you judge a person is based on their age? Isn't that generalizing?

 

I'm 43.. Ok ladies.. How do you like me so far! Lol

 

Yes and no. We can judge what we like based off of the ages of the partners we've enjoyed the most in the past. We can also judge by human development and were humans are supposed to be/act at certain ages. Not everybody falls into those categories of course but what I've learned from dating is that I most enjoy partners that are at least 15 years older than I am.

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I guess I really don't care as long as he is smart, funny, secure and really "gets me."

Thats the trick. I was lucky enough to find someone who REALLY gets me... not gets me for a while and then says "You're too f***ing crazy for me to deal with!" or "Why can't you be normal?!" He's seen my crazy and loves me still. Encourages me to be the woman I want to be and is so supportive all of the time. It doesn't matter our ages are so different we are exactly who we need in our lives (both ways) and our relationship is our business.

 

She said 'both ways' :P

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Ladies, I am writing a book with a female lead character and was wondering if any of you who like men 10+ years older than you could elaborate a little as to why. My timeline is character gets married at 20 to her male professor who is 10 years older than her. They get divorced ten years later when her husband starts feeling old and wants to get with 20 year old women again. I guess i can see a student/teacher relationship starting but I would guess most of you who prefer older men probably didn't start this way. What does a woman get out of the older man deal?
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I guess I really don't care as long as he is smart, funny, secure and really "gets me."

Thats the trick. I was lucky enough to find someone who REALLY gets me... not gets me for a while and then says "You're too f***ing crazy for me to deal with!" or "Why can't you be normal?!" He's seen my crazy and loves me still. Encourages me to be the woman I want to be and is so supportive all of the time. It doesn't matter our ages are so different we are exactly who we need in our lives (both ways) and our relationship is our business.

 

She said 'both ways' :P

Now why did I know YOU would be all over that lil comment?! :LOL:

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Ladies, I am writing a book with a female lead character and was wondering if any of you who like men 10+ years older than you could elaborate a little as to why. My timeline is character gets married at 20 to her male professor who is 10 years older than her. They get divorced ten years later when her husband starts feeling old and wants to get with 20 year old women again. I guess i can see a student/teacher relationship starting but I would guess most of you who prefer older men probably didn't start this way. What does a woman get out of the older man deal?

 

Because Geddy Lee.

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When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's I dug older dudes but the more I am hatin' this getting older bs I find myself looking at boys much younger than me thinking... young and dumb will do just fine and no ties, they can keep their drama.

Booty call bay yeah! :haz:

You gotta love anyone, male or female, who knows what they want and like and go for it..... :cheers: to life and the pursuit of happiness.... :) You only get one

 

Totally :LOL: but first I have to deal with the most ungratifying marriage ever... :unsure:

Depending on how you define "ungratifying", you may be preaching to the choir... :unsure:

 

Jeez Narp, we can sing in harmony then... :)

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Seems kinda silly to me.. How can you judge a person is based on their age? Isn't that generalizing?

 

I'm 43.. Ok ladies.. How do you like me so far! Lol

 

Yes and no. We can judge what we like based off of the ages of the partners we've enjoyed the most in the past. We can also judge by human development and were humans are supposed to be/act at certain ages. Not everybody falls into those categories of course but what I've learned from dating is that I most enjoy partners that are at least 15 years older than I am.

 

Not just that but also how we are raised and what we see and experience of relationships while growing up. Like me for example I went through enough hell that in adulthood I had sevear 'daddy' issues which is why I liked older men. In some cases much older! At this point of my life there is a lot of what-if's and hindsight going on Which is why i have worn myself thin with dudes older than me taking advantage of me or taking me for granted.So I think just based on your personal life experience is what you gravitate toward.

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I guess I really don't care as long as he is smart, funny, secure and really "gets me."

Thats the trick. I was lucky enough to find someone who REALLY gets me... not gets me for a while and then says "You're too f***ing crazy for me to deal with!" or "Why can't you be normal?!" He's seen my crazy and loves me still. Encourages me to be the woman I want to be and is so supportive all of the time. It doesn't matter our ages are so different we are exactly who we need in our lives (both ways) and our relationship is our business.

 

She said 'both ways' :P

Now why did I know YOU would be all over that lil comment?! :LOL:

 

Because you know my twisted mind baby! :P

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When I was in my teens, 20's and 30's I dug older dudes but the more I am hatin' this getting older bs I find myself looking at boys much younger than me thinking... young and dumb will do just fine and no ties, they can keep their drama.

Booty call bay yeah! :haz:

You gotta love anyone, male or female, who knows what they want and like and go for it..... :cheers: to life and the pursuit of happiness.... :) You only get one

 

Totally :LOL: but first I have to deal with the most ungratifying marriage ever... :unsure:

Depending on how you define "ungratifying", you may be preaching to the choir... :unsure:

 

Jeez Narp, we can sing in harmony then... :)

Only if you can sing. I sing better with my mic turned off like Mr. Lifeson..... :LOL:
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I guess I really don't care as long as he is smart, funny, secure and really "gets me."

Thats the trick. I was lucky enough to find someone who REALLY gets me... not gets me for a while and then says "You're too f***ing crazy for me to deal with!" or "Why can't you be normal?!" He's seen my crazy and loves me still. Encourages me to be the woman I want to be and is so supportive all of the time. It doesn't matter our ages are so different we are exactly who we need in our lives (both ways) and our relationship is our business.

 

She said 'both ways' :P

Now why did I know YOU would be all over that lil comment?! :LOL:

 

Because you know my twisted mind baby! :P

That I do Lady... that I do...

 

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I've always dated men older than I am.

 

 

 

Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am. We have a great relationship most of the time. People usually guess wrong on our ages. I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in his late 30's... :heart: :rose:

 

 

The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.

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I've always dated men older than I am.

 

 

 

Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am. We have a great relationship most of the time. People usually guess wrong on our ages. I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in his late 30's... :heart: :rose:

 

 

The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.

Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :LOL:

 

Right on! :D

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Age is just a number, but I still say , if you're a guy in his mid to late 30s, and you date someone in their early 20s, chances are it won't work. I think it depends on where each person is in their life.. A couple with a , say 15 year age difference, that are 55 and 40, is a hell of a lot different than 22 and 37.
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Age is just a number, but I still say , if you're a guy in his mid to late 30s, and you date someone in their early 20s, chances are it won't work. I think it depends on where each person is in their life.. A couple with a , say 15 year age difference, that are 55 and 40, is a hell of a lot different than 22 and 37.

 

And yet for men around 30 it's so easy to pick up girls around 20 years old.

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I've always dated men older than I am.

 

 

 

Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am. We have a great relationship most of the time. People usually guess wrong on our ages. I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in his late 30's... :heart: :rose:

 

 

The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.

Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :LOL:

 

Right on! :D

 

 

Yeah, he is! :wub: Did you get to meet him too when I met you? He's just the most beautiful person I've ever laid eyes on...

 

 

I really wish I could hang out with you again! That would be awesome.

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I've always dated men older than I am.

 

 

 

Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am. We have a great relationship most of the time. People usually guess wrong on our ages. I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in his late 30's... :heart: :rose:

 

 

The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.

Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :LOL:

 

Right on! :D

 

 

Yeah, he is! :wub: Did you get to meet him too when I met you? He's just the most beautiful person I've ever laid eyes on...

 

 

I really wish I could hang out with you again! That would be awesome.

I think I did meet him briefly... was kinda crazy with all the Rush Nuts there. :LOL: I doubt he or even YOU would recognize me now.

BTW have you started the 21 day raw challenge yet? I can send you some recipes to make it really interesting and fun if you want. Or just look at "my" Raw Food Diet thread... I've been posting my recipes I've been coming up with in there.

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I've always dated men older than I am.

 

 

 

Eric is 8 years, 10 months and 15 days younger than I am. We have a great relationship most of the time. People usually guess wrong on our ages. I'm always carded and he's always accused of being in his late 30's... :heart: :rose:

 

 

The age thing bothered me a lot at first, but I felt so secure with us that it didn't matter after that.

Hey he's my age! I didn't know that! :LOL:

 

Right on! :D

 

 

Yeah, he is! :wub: Did you get to meet him too when I met you? He's just the most beautiful person I've ever laid eyes on...

 

 

I really wish I could hang out with you again! That would be awesome.

I think I did meet him briefly... was kinda crazy with all the Rush Nuts there. :LOL: I doubt he or even YOU would recognize me now.

BTW have you started the 21 day raw challenge yet? I can send you some recipes to make it really interesting and fun if you want. Or just look at "my" Raw Food Diet thread... I've been posting my recipes I've been coming up with in there.

 

Hey, I just saw this. I didn't start it because I accidentally deleted the email you sent me. :(

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