umoveme

I went Insane? Ok, that's just hilarious. :laughing guy:

??? I just said I wasn't singling you out. If you wanna go all "sigh" on me and respond that way, be my guest, but I seriously wasn't being bitchy or anything. Yeah. You just told him what he said was "weird, dumb and gross." That's all. You need serious help in comprehending the written word!! Especially your own. Take this to the juice box section I don't want 2 of my threads turned into catfights! (unless there are pictures) nah, that's no use. the mighty CY and I have steered that thread back on topic, so sorry, all you people looking for an argument lol. I've got better things to do than argue with strangers over the INTERNET. Hobo, all one has to do is look at your post above this one to see that you do, in fact, have nothing better to do than argue with strangers over the internet. Most, if not all, of your posts in this thread have been attempts to bait people into an argument with you over your immature outbursts in the juice box thread from two nights ago. The irony here (if you can recognize it) is that this is a thread about "admitting that you are wrong," and yet you won't even own up to remembering that you made those posts the other night. "lol I don't remember writing that stuff because lol I was so drunk lol." But you clearly still have an ax to grind with some people here, as you continue to insult and berate them (you've shared some pretty awful stuff about your mother, so likening someone here to your mother is pretty insulting.) My guess is, you will continue to try to have it both ways: disavowing any recollection of your behavior and postings from the other night, therefore not having to own up to it, and what was said about it, all the while taking little pot shots here and there at the people you were so pissed at that night, and at the people who subsequently called you out on what you posted. I used to see behavior like this all the time, when I was a middle school teacher. OK, here we go. *sigh* 3. in terms of that stupid juice box trhead, if you all read her post and see nothing judgmental, rude or bitchy about it, well, that really astounds me. "I have seen hundreds of lunches prepared by parents"- there ya go. Not your kid, and if you have so little to worry about to the point where you can get all bent out of shape over juice boxes, then I envy your lack of real world problems. 4. I call people out when they come across as bitchy. How I was raised. If you actually take the time to look back on any "argument" I have "started", you will not only see a horde of people ganging up to harass and bully me for stating my opinion, but you'll also see, many many many times, me PLEADING with you all to stop and move on. Do you guys stop and move on? No. It's like y'all try to outdo each other with "OMG WHO CAN GET HOBO ANGRIEST?" - I don't fall into that trap lol. Do you see how much you are blowing up what she said? About juice boxes? And again, she wasn't even talking to you, or about you. So why do you care? It wasn't about you, and it wasn't about your kid. So why didn't you follow your own advice and mind your own business if it's not about your kid? And all this nonsense about you calling it like you see it, and calling people out, but you don't judge? Utter crap. You judge. You use those terms to hide behind, so you can't be accused of judging. But you do judge, as much as the most judgmental people here. I give my child juice boxes. She was very judgmental about parents who do just that. Therefore, I had a point to make. How about we turn this around? Why is it seemingly OK to point the finger at a huge group of people and chastise them for raising their child a different way than you might? Is that really acceptable these days??? Judging means labeling people when you know nothing about who they are. Seeing people for who they are, and saying outright that they are shitty people- not judging. Merely observation. I get that not all people are OK with that. I doubt very seriously you see anyone here "for who they really are." And again, you are using "seeing people for who they really are" and "merely observation" to hide your judging behind. But here's a thought, and maybe we can turn this around. Umoveme makes her comment about parents and juice boxes. You read the comment. You post that you give your child a juice box on occasion, as a treat or as a reward. But it's not an every day thing, and you think that that's ok. Umoveme says that she also thinks it's ok on occasion, and what she meant was parents who send them with their kids every day, along with other sweets and stuff that we really just know are not good for kids every day. You two agree to agree. Or, umoveme repsonds that you are a terrible parent for even giving a juice box occasionally as a reward or a treat. And then we all get pissed at umoveme for being so harsh and unreasonable in how she judged you. How about we all do what I do when someone disagrees with my opinion (as long as it's not in a hateful way)- say "ugh, I don't agree" and move on. Why make a big deal out of it? It's not hard, I assure you.... And I'm sorry, but judgment is different than observation. YOU made the big deal out of it! get it?

I also think soda is lame to hand to a kid. I give my kid soda sometimes. I think there are some choices that are better than others. Am I perfect? No. Do I have to spell that out I every post I make? No. Do I have to assume someone might have a counter argument? Sure. Arguing is healthy if done in a respectful way. Hobo immediately got personal and started being hostile and calling names when NOTHING was directed at her, personally.

??? I just said I wasn't singling you out. If you wanna go all "sigh" on me and respond that way, be my guest, but I seriously wasn't being bitchy or anything. Yeah. You just told him what he said was "weird, dumb and gross." That's all. You need serious help in comprehending the written word!! Especially your own. Take this to the juice box section I don't want 2 of my threads turned into catfights! (unless there are pictures) nah, that's no use. the mighty CY and I have steered that thread back on topic, so sorry, all you people looking for an argument lol. I've got better things to do than argue with strangers over the INTERNET. Hobo, all one has to do is look at your post above this one to see that you do, in fact, have nothing better to do than argue with strangers over the internet. Most, if not all, of your posts in this thread have been attempts to bait people into an argument with you over your immature outbursts in the juice box thread from two nights ago. The irony here (if you can recognize it) is that this is a thread about "admitting that you are wrong," and yet you won't even own up to remembering that you made those posts the other night. "lol I don't remember writing that stuff because lol I was so drunk lol." But you clearly still have an ax to grind with some people here, as you continue to insult and berate them (you've shared some pretty awful stuff about your mother, so likening someone here to your mother is pretty insulting.) My guess is, you will continue to try to have it both ways: disavowing any recollection of your behavior and postings from the other night, therefore not having to own up to it, and what was said about it, all the while taking little pot shots here and there at the people you were so pissed at that night, and at the people who subsequently called you out on what you posted. I used to see behavior like this all the time, when I was a middle school teacher. OK, here we go. *sigh* 1. in terms of Narp, I WAS NOT being insulting to him. That phrase literally made me go "EW" out loud, and I was laughing as I responded to it. Sorry if it came off as bitchy, I really do apologize as that was never my intent. You are talking about the girl who posted about female ejaculation lol so "gross things" do not offend me to the point where it ruins my day. I am also a mother who has had vomit and diarrhea smeared on her face, so again- I don't get angry over gross things lol. 2. umoveme.....I have told her multiple times to PM me instead of acting all tough on a public forum. She sure can blast me on here, yet lacks the balls to message me in private so maybe we can, oh, idk- COME TO SOME SORT OF UNDERSTANDING. An understanding of ANY kind, even if it's a mutual agreement to not talk shit about each other publicly. 3. in terms of that stupid juice box trhead, if you all read her post and see nothing judgmental, rude or bitchy about it, well, that really astounds me. "I have seen hundreds of lunches prepared by parents"- there ya go. Not your kid, and if you have so little to worry about to the point where you can get all bent out of shape over juice boxes, then I envy your lack of real world problems. 4. I call people out when they come across as bitchy. How I was raised. If you actually take the time to look back on any "argument" I have "started", you will not only see a horde of people ganging up to harass and bully me for stating my opinion, but you'll also see, many many many times, me PLEADING with you all to stop and move on. Do you guys stop and move on? No. It's like y'all try to outdo each other with "OMG WHO CAN GET HOBO ANGRIEST?" - I don't fall into that trap lol. Yet I'm the immature one. "Okay". You all, save for a handful of people I love dearly and with all my heart on here, act like a bunch of high schoolers. All this drama and clique/hive mind shit. Gimme a break lol. 5. I WAS drunk the other night, after my daughter fell asleep. (my daughter who, BTW, is always well fed, always in clean clothes, always bathed and eats healthy. so....bad mom? Nice try. lol) I owned up to being drunk while posting it. And? I'm the bad guy for admitting I posted whilst drunk? (that doesn't mean I'll apologize to anyone who, overall, has been NOTHING but an insufferable shrew to me.) And how many parents on here have a drink or two to CELEBRATE A VERY IMPORTANT EVENT WITH THEIR SPOUSE? Yeah, all you people who are keeping quiet- I know you're out there. so to all you lovely Rushians who insinuated I was a bad mom for getting my drink on, I can only laugh. My daughter was safely tucked away in bed, and I sat on the couch and watched TV. OOH, SO BAD, right? -_- just like I am very open about smoking pot. It is after she is asleep, in my car at like 3 AM. (never mind that it's for my crippling migraines, I know my valid reasoning will never get through to some people. Oh well, so be it.) Damn right I drink and smoke, but not before my daughters needs are ALWAYS taken care of. (Now my mom the crackwhore alcoholic, SHE was a bad mom lol.) How many people would have the mind to come back and say "Oops, I shouldn't have posted that"? Without naming names, today I had to send a PM that broke my heart to type. It was no easy choice. But immediately after sending it, I see a post all about it here, for all to see, and it's in a manner which paints me out to be the bad guy. Really? who the hell does that??? I keep things private for a reason, only for someone to bring it up to people who don't need to know about it. So much for class. idk if umoveme has some weird spell over you guys, but she has shown me her true colors, and I don't like it. I assure you, I'm kinda chuckling at all of this. It's amazing how the number of buddies I had on here tends to get smaller and smaller. Would you all say these things to my face, if we met in person? Or would you awkwardly change the topic and walk away? I bet I know that answer. Everything I say on here, is stuff I would not hesitate to say in person. And everything I post publicly, has been something I already told that person in one way or another. Meanwhile, you all like to group together and unfairly attack those who do not have the majority opinion of something. and about likening someone to my mother- I am not saying umoveme is a crackwhore, like my birth bitch was/is/who the f**k cares what she's up to these days. But her wording.....HOW she attacks others......her tone and attitude throughout.......like she's twins with my mother. I kid you not. and THAT is quite worrisome. That should tell you something right there. Maybe a little self reflection, concentrating on that one point, would do you some good. Oh all of you silly people with your logic, reason, intelligence and comprehension skills. That stuff serves no purpose here.

Oh and sorry to all of the peeps who can't have a thought on their own. I had to cast a spell on you so, you know, you could understand English. (eye roll)

That's about right! :D I can't get visions of Honey Boo Boo out of my mind.

??? I just said I wasn't singling you out. If you wanna go all "sigh" on me and respond that way, be my guest, but I seriously wasn't being bitchy or anything. Yeah. You just told him what he said was "weird, dumb and gross." That's all. You need serious help in comprehending the written word!! Especially your own.

LOL, you sound like me after many conversations with my brother! Oh brother. You didn't say anything wrong. We have a new gross police all of the sudden? Hilarious.

I think you're right. ;-)

Class is kind of like porn in one way. Its hard to define but you know it and its obvious when you see it.... Oh, I can define porn!! :-D

It's kind of a sign of emotional intelligence and class. Not all people possess that. I try to admit I'm wrong, but it might take a few minutes for me to realize it.

Too high high hush hush eye to eye.

Good luck with all of that. At first its SILLY. Then it can be hurting...... and then become A SHOW before you know it.

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A REAL Rush fan wouldn't complain on a RUSH website! So there!

I just saw this thread! Hope you are feeling better and you feel you have some support! I saw that you were blaming yourself for some of the things that have happened. Please don't do that.

I'd just like to say it's never ever too late to turn relationships around. If counselors aren't "working" go to a new one. Really. <3

I want someone to drop some wining and dining on THIS GIRL!!! Drop it, baby!!

I'd be happy if they all took a series of dumps on stage. Seeing Rush is better than any regular night at home.

Sgt. Peppers! Grease!

yes

Do I need to splain?

My days have been pooh filled, but this made my day.

I'd never want it gone forever. I just like variety. Triangle, nothing, landing strip, nothing......

I believe so. Map out da bitches.