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  1. QUOTE (Presto_a RUSH fan_06-08-90 @ Nov 23 2010, 12:48 AM) Check out these kids fighting over an xbox game. I can only assume one of their names is 'Niggah'. Kids fight over Call of Duty World at War Crap like this makes me shake my head and wonder what the hell this world is coming to. What kind of parents raise kids like this. f**k you brotha, brotha, brotha. Ima stick you. brotha brotha brotha. I don't find this funny at all. Sad is more like it
  2. Gets a "Very Good" from me too. As good as the last one, which is tied with this one as my fav. excellent character study and build up. we really delve into the relationships of Hermione, Ron and Harry. great story. Quite dark. We're hoping that when the Final #7v2 comes out in July a marathon viewing of both films together will be available like some theaters did for Matrix II & III.
  3. QUOTE (FOH Lights @ Nov 23 2010, 02:58 PM) QUOTE (briremo @ Nov 23 2010, 02:13 PM)Imagine how much it costs to ship all that gear back and forth. Travel for the crews overseas? Lodging? Do they use crew buses? And to recoup that cost over 10 dates would elevate ticket prices in my mind... DING DING DING DING We have a winner! Overseas tours are NOT inexpensive. It really has nothing to do with pumping up retirement accounts. Most everyone involved could have retired years ago and lived out their remaining years quite comfortably. I know it's an open forum and venting a little helps, but lets be honest - it is what it is. You either buy a ticket and go... or not. Although, I guarantee that if you go, you will not be disappointed. The show is absolutely phenomenal and well worth the price of admission. You appear to be a thoughtful individual and/or someone with an insider's knowledge of the industry. Here's how I look at these guys and other like them... I am in awe, AWE of the sheer machinery that revolves around their ability to produce something the public wants and is willing to pay for. To think off all the individuals that will feed their families and earn a good living because Alex, Ged and Neil are talented enough and willing to share that talent with the masses. Think of the video production teams, management and logistics, lighting crews, equipment manufacturers and employees, venue employees, drivers, roadies, advertising agencies and graphics people. Sound engineers etc... These guys deserve a round of applause for caring enough to share. As FOH put it...they could have packed it in a long time ago. I'm sure of that.
  4. QUOTE (hannuFIN @ Nov 23 2010, 02:30 PM) 145 USD=105 EUR. Now have to go so your tix seem cheaper to me than here in the US. quit your gripin' and go buy some tickets!
  5. What's 80 Euros work out to in American $? Our premium seats here were $145.00. 10 times the cost of a movie ticket. How about accross the pond? FWIW, another poster commented on the expenses. They only have like 10 dates right? Imagine how much it costs to ship all that gear back and forth. Travel for the crews overseas? Lodging? Do they use crew buses? And to recoup that cost over 10 dates would elevate ticket prices in my mind...
  6. This was the first show I brought the kids to and they loved it. My 14 yr old is still talking about it so clearly, it made an impression. Next year's tour is high on the anticipation list.
  7. QUOTE (-D-RocK- @ Oct 12 2010, 04:42 PM) AshleyMadison.com The answers you seek can be found there. I'm sad to say I actually went there once but it really doesn't appeal to me. I love my wife and would be shattered and devasted if she did that to me. So I can't see myself going in that direction.
  8. QUOTE (HowItIs @ Oct 11 2010, 08:44 PM) First of all, it is incredibly courageous of you to talk about this on a public forum. That says a lot about the depth of your confusion and dismay. And you picked the right place, because the advice I've seen so far is pretty darn good. This situation is so close to my own that I had to look and make sure you're not my Hubby. Close, but there are other things at play with us and I won't go into it right now but... damn. Here's one more thing to consider; it could be medical. I am a tad older than you (and, I assume, your wife) and peri-menopause has done quite a lot to mess up my hormones. This is something every woman goes through and we all deal with it differently. It's also possible that sex has become uncomfortable for her. That's another lovely side-effect. She might not want to see a doctor but it certainly wouldn't hurt. Express your concern that there may be a physical problem and you don't want her to be uncomfortable or, worse, in pain. Consider also that she may be feeling guilty about not having sex as often as you would like. That guilt can be reinforced if she feels pressured about it. Then that feeds into lowered self-esteem and can make her feel as if she doesn't deserve you. So she then pushes you away. And it becomes a cycle that she doesn't know how to stop. You are doing the right thing by trying to "pamper" her, by telling her often that you love her, find her sexy, etc. But damned if we ladies can't listen harder to that inner voice, sometimes. I know that it's difficult to be patient (I often think my guy is a freaking saint). From my experience, I can tell you that sometimes impatience can be tangible - you might not say anything but we ladies can feel it. I know you can't really do anything about that but it's something to be aware of. So, I would advise trying to talk about it with her, as Geddy's Mullet says, at a "neutral" time. Keep in mind that it could be medical, as you do. I'm told that there is now a treatment for low libido in women. Depending upon her reaction to your talk, you might bring that up. Maybe she is the type who would prefer to check into that sort of thing on her own, and may do so if she knows about it. I know how painful this is for you. And I can't recommend the things that have worked for me simply because our situation isn't exactly the same. But I can tell you that I sympathize more than you know. I hope our advice can help you both. Great considerations. I think you may be right about the guilt thing or at least the pressure because she's quite irritated when the subject is broached. And this stems from her own frustrations, distractions, pressures IMO There is no physical discomfort. It's more of a matter of her mindset. As a matter of fact, ya'll be happy to know she surprised me last night with a rockin' good time! And this is what's so puzzling to me; when she has a great time like this, why not want to do it more than once a month? As far as going away, I would love to get her away! Our kids are 12 & 14 and she has litterally been away from them three times in that time. Once for a funeral and once for an all girl cruise. We had a two day weekend together and all she could think about was the kids. We have frequent flyer miles, we have the resources for a little get away but she just won't do it. She says we can do that after the kids are gone. And look, I love spending as much time as I can with the boys, they are a blast, but seriously. One weekend in 14 years? We need some time away for the two of us. We always vacation together, beach/ ski, summer road trips but nothing for "us". Also, I do tend to sulk when I ain't gettin' any and you're right, she does know when I'm in my funk. But her response isn't "let's have fun" it's more like "Oh OK, lets go do the deed so you'll get off my back." Anywho, you guys have been awesome! I really appreciate the thoughtful expressions and understanding AND personal insights! It gives me more perspectives that I've condsidered, but honestly my libido is constantly screaming!
  9. QUOTE (Janie @ Oct 11 2010, 08:11 PM) How long has this attitude of hers been going on? Is this a new thing or has she always been a little, "not in the mood"? Is she really depressed? On any medication? Would she ever instigate or are you not willing to wait for that? If this is something that has been going on for a long time, I think you may have to take your chances and have a heart-to-heart talk with her. Maybe something big is affecting her. How long, let's see...18.5 years.. SHe does ride an emotional roller coaster, but she is not bi-polar. My mother is and I'd know it when I see it.
  10. It's not my nature to be confrontational and her demeanor is typically BOW, or Bitch on Wheels. She actually enjoys the name. Or Witch with a 'B' is how she says it. She's not a bitchy person at home, but her job requires a certain 'tenacity'. Sometimes the attitude comes home. So even bringing up the issue results in "We just had sex last Tuesday, it's been 5 days! Is that all you think about?" very confrontational. She can't just quietly discuss it calmly like an adult. I will try again but honestly I'm not hopeful. I think Im venting more than needing advice I guess. I've been to this rodeo many times before. sigh.
  11. QUOTE (TheBlonde @ Oct 11 2010, 04:07 PM) QUOTE (briremo @ Oct 11 2010, 03:16 PM) I stay in shape, work out almost daily, so I'm not some disgusting toad. I try to make things 'fun' in the romance department but it always falls 0n deaf ears or disinterest. Obviously, I don't know you or your wife. But this first comment made me think of a good friend of mine. Her hubby also works out daily...to the point that it is his priority and he becomes quite an ass if he doesn't get his work out. (OK, he's quite an ass 24/7 but it's even worse if he doesn't get to work out.) Try to take a step outside of yourself and think about how you act regarding your workouts. You should definitely be commended for working out daily, but hopefully you shrug it off if you just can't do it some days. The second comment up there pertains to something RushChick said. Your idea of "fun" may be different than your wife's. Ask her what she'd like, what she'd think is "fun". Of course, many women are too embarrassed to admit to things - so just try to be patient with her answers. I'm definatley not a dick about working out because I go through phases myself. I'm about 5"11 and today I'm about 180, two months ago I was 192 and I should be about 172. I'm not a gym rat in the muscle-guy sense, but I just like to stay tight and fit, not ripped. not enough time to spend 3 hours a day in the gym. When I say "fun" it means I'm pretty much open to do anything for her. I'll wear a Jack Sparrow costume or howl like a werewolf (oh, Jacob!), I'll light candles and throw rose petals on the bed or handcuff her to the bedpost. I'LL DO ANYTHING! and she knows it, but she could care less because "Real Housewives of New Jesey" or "The Apprentice" is on. Like I said, "yawn, sorry honey, not tonight, I want to get these band booster packages together"...that aren't due for two more weeks. So, one more days go by, I help her with the band booster packages or put listing packets together while I lead a life of quiet desperation
  12. QUOTE (Rushchick10 @ Oct 11 2010, 03:42 PM) QUOTE (TheBlonde @ Oct 11 2010, 03:33 PM) And when the deed does happen...is she getting "her's"? If your answer is yes, are you sure that she is? (There's no shame in admitting that she may not be...it took my hubby 10 years to find the right buttons to push and he wasn't a virgin when we met.) I knew I was forgetting to mention something! Leave it to TheBlonde! Yes, that can be a big deal-breaker for a lot of women. You can only go so long faking it. Then, sex becomes more of a chore, and not the enjoyable experience that it should be. I speak from experience. She's NEVER faked it. Never had to. When she wants to, she does. At least we got that goin for us
  13. QUOTE (TheBlonde @ Oct 11 2010, 03:33 PM) QUOTE (briremo @ Oct 11 2010, 03:16 PM) and she's too busy to cheat on me And there, Sleepless, I think you may have answered your own question. She's mentally & physically exhausted. Do you have children? Does your wife work outside of the home? Does your attempt at rubbing her neck or feet typically result in your hands wandering elsewhere? Or do you give her the massage and then go about your own business? You may shower her with a million compliments each day, but does SHE feel that way about herself? And when the deed does happen...is she getting "her's"? If your answer is yes, are you sure that she is? (There's no shame in admitting that she may not be...it took my hubby 10 years to find the right buttons to push and he wasn't a virgin when we met.) Yes we have early teen boys but they're good and stress free for the most part. She does work, as a matter of fact that's her seconday pursuit, kids being 1st. But I work as much, (yes I know, I'm a guy) and find myself "In The Mood" quite bit regardless of how tired I am, or how much stress I'm under. Truthfully I can say she looks for ways to avoid intitmacy through work. her laptop has become her chastity belt Have we had financial issues, sure, we're both self employed. So we've insanely good years and the economy has pinched, but all the bills are paid...and I'm still honry. Does she always come away satisfied? . But that's her choice, whenever she does want the experience, we make it happen together. She just has a "I only need it once a month" attitude. It's almost like the worst thing I can do is take her out for a nice dinner and arrange for the kids to go on sleep overs because then she assumes I want "it" even if I'm happy just to have some snuggle time. So the obligatory-sex ensues. Hey, I'm not gonna pass it up! But, I feel like I get it so rarely and she feels like I all ever do is talk about sex because once a week i get that look in my eyes, hoping I've waited long enough for her to be OK with it so I'm not pressuring her. Ugh, its so much work just to keep from expressing my desires. OK, yes, she has gained a little weight she's 5'10" and has gone from 135 to 160, but obviously that has not curtailed by desires. would I like her to lose weight, sure, but I never discuss it. I do think she's unhappy with her body. You know, it's not so much that we don't have SEX often, it really boils down to the fact that she shuns intimacy so we can never get to the point where it just happens as a natural progression. It has to be an item on her check list. IDK, here I am 47, married 19 years, I have had other opportunities which I've rejected and I'm starting to think that I need some validation that I'm acceptable to her. It sucks going around feeling like you repulse your spouse when others show interest. I won't stray because I can't betray someone like that (I could never survive it) but I also need her to change...and I hoenstly don't think that's gonna happen.
  14. Hey Gals! I'm asking for your help here. My dear wife just has no interest in 'getting together' anymore. Makes me sad. I'm a happy and positive guy, I always tell her she looks great, I kiss her and tell her I love her , I rub her neck or her feet every night, I help around the house and do all the husbandly thing dutifully and (usuually) happily, but no matter what I do, she's too tired, too much on her mind, or just doesn't care about anything romantic. I stay in shape, work out almost daily, so I'm not some disgusting toad. you can click on my profile to see a pic if you like. I try to make things 'fun' in the romance department but it always falls 0n deaf ears or disinterest. What can I do? It's driving me crazy! Whenever I get close and 'snuggly' she goes "Oh ...you want sex", which takes all the fun out of anything. It's like I just asked her to take out the trash or clean the gutters! Then she says "tonight honey", but tonight never comes, or at least fast enough for me. Never cheated on my beautiful bride, and she's too busy to cheat on me so I'm doubly perplexed. Help ladies. What can I do! Signed Sleepless in Xanadu
  15. QUOTE (rebelyank @ Oct 5 2010, 08:27 AM) My husband and I took our 11 and 14 year old sons to this tour (in San Francisco) because we're all major fans. It wasn't like we dragged them them there and they didn't know a thing. We happened to end up in a really heavy smoking area. Some people were acting crazy. But it was a very teachable moment for us. We tried to show them how not to focus on stuff like that and remember the reason you're there -- to see the greatest band in the world. Just tune everything else out and lock into the music! While Rush and Pink Floyd among others have a major drug culture following, there are many of us who enjoy them sober. As long as you're not pushing your own agenda (either way) I don't have a problem with either side of it. we too brought our 12 and 14 year old boys. although it wasnt continuous, the pot smoke was pretty heavy at times. As a former frequent user, I get it. There are times I think about lighting up and putting Zanadu and the headphones, but I'm over that now. I don;t think its any more obnoxious than a cigarrette. It became a good time for me to tell the kids, "that's what pot smells like." The good news is the boys were VERY bothered by the weed and IMO will not be interested in trying it going forward. THANKS POT HEADS!
  16. we had the bast time ever. LVS and WM were un-be-leivable. I'm serious, I have rarely seen tham that good. My 14 year old son was in awe! Thanks for the best time ever guys!
  17. I think it was Eastwood's Bronco Billy He and Sandra Locke were laying in bed after sex and she says "were you ever married?" CE: yep, i was married once SL: what happened? CE: I caught her in bed in with my best friend SL: OMG, what did you do? CE: I shot her SL: WHat? Really? What about him? You shoot him too? CE: No SL: Why not? CE He's my best friend!
  18. QUOTE (g under p @ Sep 28 2010, 07:24 PM) Well I'm certainly glad they won't have to play through this tropical depression with it's wind and 4 inches of rain. It will be long gone by Saturday. its still a 50% chance of rain!
  19. QUOTE (D3strukt @ Sep 28 2010, 08:00 AM) I was going to go. But unfortunately, it's pretty far, 3 hour drive, from Orlando. It suck! Sorry, Rush, I want to see you badly. PSH, I live in Orlando, Longwood actually...AND WE'RE GOING!
  20. we'll be there. me plus 3. wife and two boys 12 & 14. I like the earlier idea of meeting at Duffy's on Okeechobee Blvd. Only a couple miles from the venue and the best chicken wings in South FL. Their motto is Coldest Beer, Best Burgers. Shoot for 4PM outta there by 5:30-6:00.
  21. I agree with Monkey boy, Geddy's voice is sailing south. It's wavering and cracking and ignoring it for nostalgia's sake is whistling past the microphone. I love the man too, but it is what is. And it is a 60 year old vocal chords trying to hit notes that were incredibly high to begin with. Can't wait for the WPB show!
  22. QUOTE (The Sphere @ Sep 9 2010, 07:35 AM) That's what I'm talking about! Thanks ENA - I'll check it out! Ybor is a fun night on the town. lots of local flavor tyoe bars that welcome strangers. No chains. Mons Venus if youre into throwing mounds of cash at big boobies
  23. briremo

    Devil

    I have given up on him. unless it gets rave reviews.
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