Mara Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 (edited) Just random musings from an idle mind.... What, to you, makes a kiss great/perfect? I mean, it's easy to list things that make a kiss bad, like bad breath, too much saliva, or a dead fish tongue that just sort of flops into your mouth and lies there like a big wet....blob. Of course there are many, many contexts in play as well. Like first date vs. booty call, for example. For me, soft, sensitive lips are a must, to name one thing. There needs to be lip action and movement, not just pressing them against mine. I'm sure I'll think of some other things. Edit: I did think of something else. I like it when the other person lightly traces the outline of my lips with just the tip of his tongue between kisses. I also love soft little kisses on the neck. Anyone else? I know this is in NWW, but I'd love to know the guys' perspective as well. Edited June 15, 2015 by Mara 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ancient Ways Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 The right person's lips 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 (edited) The correct attitude which would be the joy and pleasure of your partner being first and foremost in your thinking. I have found over the years that the lips themselves matter as well. The size or volumn of the lips changes the sensation and I will leave it there... :) Edited June 14, 2015 by Narps Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 ^^^^ I should clarify that these observations are mostly from my recolections and not recent events... :) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RushCanuck Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 Chapped lips or the presence of a cold sore would be turn offs.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EagleMoon Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 I've forgotten. :( 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tuesday's Gone Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 http://nintendonewsblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/spongebob-imagination.jpg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 Chapped lips or the presence of a cold sore would be turn offs.. Indeed they would... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 I've forgotten. :( empathy... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EagleMoon Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 I've forgotten. :( empathy... Thanks. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Segue Myles Posted June 14, 2015 Share Posted June 14, 2015 What makes a good kiss? One Segue Myles on the receiving end. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goose Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 The right person's lips :goodone: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 http://nintendonewsblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/spongebob-imagination.jpgHAHAHA! However, this is about kissing, not touching yourself. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 (edited) Alright... a good kiss, for me, are those soft little small kisses where you get just a flick of tongue. I don't like, full on, check-to-see-if-I-still-have-my-tonsils kiss, unless it's in the throws of passion but the moment has to be just right. I like kisses that tease. Edited June 15, 2015 by Janie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
treeduck Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 Well for me personally, it has to involve me in there or I don't think it's any good. :hail: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x1yyz Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 I like kisses that are a little more "aggressive", if that makes sense. Nothing too passive. I want someone to kiss me like they mean it, and I will do the same. Also, I think it is SO HOT when the other person runs their hand down your face and neck as they are kissing you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 I like kisses that are a little more "aggressive", if that makes sense. Nothing too passive. I want someone to kiss me like they mean it, and I will do the same. Also, I think it is SO HOT when the other person runs their hand down your face and neck as they are kissing you.Aggressive kissing has its place, unless the other person has facial hair. I have ended up looking like the carrier of some nasty mouth/skin disease after making out with a guy with a goatee. And oh yeah, holding someone's face hard (not passive - not with a light touch) is incredibly sexy. I love having my face held tight against the other in a passionate kiss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geezer Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 Developments Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Del_Duio Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 The absence of spit. Too much spittle is nauseating. :spitwater: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Del_Duio Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 Chapped lips or the presence of a cold sore would be turn offs.. Jesus H. Christ, I hope so!Calling Dr. Herpes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garden Dancer Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 The right person, yes.Nice lips and a good smile. Hand-on-the-face, oh absolutely! Soft sweet little smoocheslingering a bit longer, lightly 'trapping' lower lip between their teeth (just once or twice, don't over do it)Tip of the tongue tracing the lips,then slip inside and gently tease. Big yes to ears, neck, shoulders...Big yes to some lip-action, not just pressing. Someone who can kind of "match" your own kiss-play. Coz you don't wanna' be the only one doing it all. If the one you're kissing won't play with you, it's just not as much fun. ...and should the kisses move elsewhere...Well, that's always fun, too! ;) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mara Posted June 15, 2015 Author Share Posted June 15, 2015 I also like to have my hair stroked/gently pulled during a long kiss. Some ear play is nice and can be exciting, but don't overdo! I've had an experience or two where it felt like the guy was trying to get down in there and lick my brain. Not sexy at all. As with just about everything, there is a line that, once crossed, can derail the whole train. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lost In Xanadu Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 Closer to the belly button, the better 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tombstone Mountain Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 Lust makes a kiss great. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x1yyz Posted June 15, 2015 Share Posted June 15, 2015 Desire. Possibility. Fun and playfulness. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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