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What makes a kiss great?


Mara
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Just random musings from an idle mind....

 

What, to you, makes a kiss great/perfect?

 

I mean, it's easy to list things that make a kiss bad, like bad breath, too much saliva, or a dead fish tongue that just sort of flops into your mouth and lies there like a big wet....blob.

 

Of course there are many, many contexts in play as well. Like first date vs. booty call, for example.

 

For me, soft, sensitive lips are a must, to name one thing. There needs to be lip action and movement, not just pressing them against mine. I'm sure I'll think of some other things.

 

Edit: I did think of something else. I like it when the other person lightly traces the outline of my lips with just the tip of his tongue between kisses. I also love soft little kisses on the neck.

 

Anyone else? I know this is in NWW, but I'd love to know the guys' perspective as well.

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The correct attitude which would be the joy and pleasure of your partner being first and foremost in your thinking. I have found over the years that the lips themselves matter as well. The size or volumn of the lips changes the sensation and I will leave it there... :) Edited by Narps
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^^^^ I should clarify that these observations are mostly from my recolections and not recent events... :)
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Chapped lips or the presence of a cold sore would be turn offs..

:scared: Indeed they would...
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What makes a good kiss?

 

One Segue Myles on the receiving end.

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Alright... a good kiss, for me, are those soft little small kisses where you get just a flick of tongue. I don't like, full on, check-to-see-if-I-still-have-my-tonsils kiss, unless it's in the throws of passion but the moment has to be just right. I like kisses that tease. Edited by Janie
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I like kisses that are a little more "aggressive", if that makes sense. Nothing too passive. I want someone to kiss me like they mean it, and I will do the same.

 

Also, I think it is SO HOT when the other person runs their hand down your face and neck as they are kissing you.

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I like kisses that are a little more "aggressive", if that makes sense. Nothing too passive. I want someone to kiss me like they mean it, and I will do the same.

 

Also, I think it is SO HOT when the other person runs their hand down your face and neck as they are kissing you.

Aggressive kissing has its place, unless the other person has facial hair. I have ended up looking like the carrier of some nasty mouth/skin disease after making out with a guy with a goatee.

 

And oh yeah, holding someone's face hard (not passive - not with a light touch) is incredibly sexy. I love having my face held tight against the other in a passionate kiss.

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Chapped lips or the presence of a cold sore would be turn offs..

 

Jesus H. Christ, I hope so!

Calling Dr. Herpes!

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The right person, yes.

Nice lips and a good smile.

 

Hand-on-the-face, oh absolutely!

 

Soft sweet little smooches

lingering a bit longer, lightly 'trapping' lower lip between their teeth (just once or twice, don't over do it)

Tip of the tongue tracing the lips,

then slip inside and gently tease.

 

Big yes to ears, neck, shoulders...

Big yes to some lip-action, not just pressing.

 

Someone who can kind of "match" your own kiss-play. Coz you don't wanna' be the only one doing it all.

If the one you're kissing won't play with you, it's just not as much fun.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

...and should the kisses move elsewhere...

Well, that's always fun, too! ;) :blush: :wub:

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I also like to have my hair stroked/gently pulled during a long kiss.

 

Some ear play is nice and can be exciting, but don't overdo! I've had an experience or two where it felt like the guy was trying to get down in there and lick my brain. Not sexy at all. As with just about everything, there is a line that, once crossed, can derail the whole train.

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