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I've been in a monogamous relationship for 12 years so it's been awhile since I've been on a date, but for the first few dates I think whomever did the asking should offer to pay. In general, at least until the relationship becomes more long-standing, the girl should always offer to pay her share. But it's really nice when the guy picks up the bill anyhow*.

 

Years ago there was a time I was unemployed. A guy asked me out to dinner and I agreed to go, but stated ahead of time I was broke and could not afford to pay. When we got the check at the end of dinner this lovely man realized he has "forgotten" his wallet and I was stuck putting both our dinners on my credit card. Fk him. Or more accurately, I didn't!

 

* This only applies if he is interested in seeing her again. If not, there is no reason the bill should not be split. If she makes a lot more money than him then reverse the roles.

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I've been in a monogamous relationship for 12 years so it's been awhile since I've been on a date, but for the first few dates I think whomever did the asking should offer to pay. In general, at least until the relationship becomes more long-standing, the girl should always offer to pay her share. But it's really nice when the guy picks up the bill anyhow*.

 

Years ago there was a time I was unemployed. A guy asked me out to dinner and I agreed to go, but stated ahead of time I was broke and could not afford to pay. When we got the check at the end of dinner this lovely man realized he has "forgotten" his wallet and I was stuck putting both our dinners on my credit card. Fk him. Or more accurately, I didn't!

 

* This only applies if he is interested in seeing her again. If not, there is no reason the bill should not be split. If she makes a lot more money than him then reverse the roles.

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

http://scaredyet.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Halloween-Tutorials-23.jpg

 

"Sounds great!"

In this case I think it might be better to give than receive..... :eh:
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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

http://scaredyet.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Halloween-Tutorials-23.jpg

 

"Sounds great!"

In this case I think it might be better to give than receive..... :eh:

 

Inorite??? It's probably just her mouth that's all banged up. The rest of her could be pretty decent.

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

http://scaredyet.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Halloween-Tutorials-23.jpg

 

"Sounds great!"

In this case I think it might be better to give than receive..... :eh:

 

Inorite??? It's probably just her mouth that's all banged up. The rest of her could be pretty decent.

Could be.... :cool:
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But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.

I come from a different generation. Thank goodness.

 

I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. :hockey:

 

I rather agree with Lorraine here.

 

I have no plans to begin dating anyone anyway, so take this however you will. But if I were to ask someone out to do anything that costs money, then yes, I'm buying. And if I were asked by someone else, I'd still buy. That's just the way I am. Doesn't matter if it's the first date, second date, or twentieth date. I don't see that it's a question of either being liberated or not liberated. That's just the way I am.

 

They key is to be comfortable enough together that you don't have to do things on a date that always cost money. Just spend time together. And if that's not good enough, then you need to reevaluate the whole thing anyway.

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But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.

I come from a different generation. Thank goodness.

 

I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. :hockey:

 

I rather agree with Lorraine here.

 

I have no plans to begin dating anyone anyway, so take this however you will. But if I were to ask someone out to do anything that costs money, then yes, I'm buying. And if I were asked by someone else, I'd still buy. That's just the way I am. Doesn't matter if it's the first date, second date, or twentieth date. I don't see that it's a question of either being liberated or not liberated. That's just the way I am.

 

They key is to be comfortable enough together that you don't have to do things on a date that always cost money. Just spend time together. And if that's not good enough, then you need to reevaluate the whole thing anyway.

And I rather agree with both Lorraine and Blue J. I think the man should ask for at least the first three dates and pay for those dates. As I recall, he's well-rewarded at the end of date #3.

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But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.

I come from a different generation. Thank goodness.

 

I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. :hockey:

 

I rather agree with Lorraine here.

 

I have no plans to begin dating anyone anyway, so take this however you will. But if I were to ask someone out to do anything that costs money, then yes, I'm buying. And if I were asked by someone else, I'd still buy. That's just the way I am. Doesn't matter if it's the first date, second date, or twentieth date. I don't see that it's a question of either being liberated or not liberated. That's just the way I am.

 

They key is to be comfortable enough together that you don't have to do things on a date that always cost money. Just spend time together. And if that's not good enough, then you need to reevaluate the whole thing anyway.

And I rather agree with both Lorraine and Blue J. I think the man should ask for at least the first three dates and pay for those dates. As I recall, he's well-rewarded at the end of date #3.

I only went out on two "first dates" in my entire life. I did pretty well on both but for different reasons.... ;)
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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

:cool: :d13:
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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

:cool: :d13:

 

Sh**! :facepalm: :LOL:

 

You think it's too late to call her and remind her? :P

 

It's your dime not mine. :LOL:

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive.

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive.

 

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

 

I didn't mean to offend anyone.

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive.

 

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

 

I didn't mean to offend anyone.

I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive.

 

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

 

I didn't mean to offend anyone.

I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

 

:popcorn:

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive.

 

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

 

I didn't mean to offend anyone.

I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

 

It was pretty obvious.

 

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive.

 

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

 

I didn't mean to offend anyone.

I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

 

It was pretty obvious.

 

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

 

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.

 

Thank you for your apology. :)

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive.

 

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

 

I didn't mean to offend anyone.

I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

 

It was pretty obvious.

 

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

 

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.

 

Thank you for your apology. :)

 

Life is back to normal!! :dweez: :7up: :D

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The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral.

 

Seems fair

 

Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!

I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive.

 

But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive?

 

I didn't mean to offend anyone.

I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out.

 

It was pretty obvious.

 

I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry.

 

It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used.

 

Thank you for your apology. :)

 

I guess I'm lucky that my maturity level is stunted by about ten years. :gumby:

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