x1yyz Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 I've been in a monogamous relationship for 12 years so it's been awhile since I've been on a date, but for the first few dates I think whomever did the asking should offer to pay. In general, at least until the relationship becomes more long-standing, the girl should always offer to pay her share. But it's really nice when the guy picks up the bill anyhow*. Years ago there was a time I was unemployed. A guy asked me out to dinner and I agreed to go, but stated ahead of time I was broke and could not afford to pay. When we got the check at the end of dinner this lovely man realized he has "forgotten" his wallet and I was stuck putting both our dinners on my credit card. Fk him. Or more accurately, I didn't! * This only applies if he is interested in seeing her again. If not, there is no reason the bill should not be split. If she makes a lot more money than him then reverse the roles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 I've been in a monogamous relationship for 12 years so it's been awhile since I've been on a date, but for the first few dates I think whomever did the asking should offer to pay. In general, at least until the relationship becomes more long-standing, the girl should always offer to pay her share. But it's really nice when the guy picks up the bill anyhow*. Years ago there was a time I was unemployed. A guy asked me out to dinner and I agreed to go, but stated ahead of time I was broke and could not afford to pay. When we got the check at the end of dinner this lovely man realized he has "forgotten" his wallet and I was stuck putting both our dinners on my credit card. Fk him. Or more accurately, I didn't! * This only applies if he is interested in seeing her again. If not, there is no reason the bill should not be split. If she makes a lot more money than him then reverse the roles.:cheers: good1..... :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatLightInYourEyes Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair http://scaredyet.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Halloween-Tutorials-23.jpg "Sounds great!" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maverick Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair http://scaredyet.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Halloween-Tutorials-23.jpg "Sounds great!" You're definitely paying. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair http://scaredyet.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Halloween-Tutorials-23.jpg "Sounds great!"In this case I think it might be better to give than receive..... 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maverick Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair http://scaredyet.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Halloween-Tutorials-23.jpg "Sounds great!"In this case I think it might be better to give than receive..... Inorite??? It's probably just her mouth that's all banged up. The rest of her could be pretty decent. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair http://scaredyet.net/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/Halloween-Tutorials-23.jpg "Sounds great!"In this case I think it might be better to give than receive..... Inorite??? It's probably just her mouth that's all banged up. The rest of her could be pretty decent.Could be.... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
antiquark Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The man pays... just because! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue J Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.I come from a different generation. Thank goodness. I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. I rather agree with Lorraine here. I have no plans to begin dating anyone anyway, so take this however you will. But if I were to ask someone out to do anything that costs money, then yes, I'm buying. And if I were asked by someone else, I'd still buy. That's just the way I am. Doesn't matter if it's the first date, second date, or twentieth date. I don't see that it's a question of either being liberated or not liberated. That's just the way I am. They key is to be comfortable enough together that you don't have to do things on a date that always cost money. Just spend time together. And if that's not good enough, then you need to reevaluate the whole thing anyway. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.I come from a different generation. Thank goodness. I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. I rather agree with Lorraine here. I have no plans to begin dating anyone anyway, so take this however you will. But if I were to ask someone out to do anything that costs money, then yes, I'm buying. And if I were asked by someone else, I'd still buy. That's just the way I am. Doesn't matter if it's the first date, second date, or twentieth date. I don't see that it's a question of either being liberated or not liberated. That's just the way I am. They key is to be comfortable enough together that you don't have to do things on a date that always cost money. Just spend time together. And if that's not good enough, then you need to reevaluate the whole thing anyway.And I rather agree with both Lorraine and Blue J. I think the man should ask for at least the first three dates and pay for those dates. As I recall, he's well-rewarded at the end of date #3. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 But why is it the man who must pay? It's like saying "I'm a woman and no less than a man, but you pay for my dinner". At least take turns.I come from a different generation. Thank goodness. I will let you gentlemen duke it out among your liberated selves. I rather agree with Lorraine here. I have no plans to begin dating anyone anyway, so take this however you will. But if I were to ask someone out to do anything that costs money, then yes, I'm buying. And if I were asked by someone else, I'd still buy. That's just the way I am. Doesn't matter if it's the first date, second date, or twentieth date. I don't see that it's a question of either being liberated or not liberated. That's just the way I am. They key is to be comfortable enough together that you don't have to do things on a date that always cost money. Just spend time together. And if that's not good enough, then you need to reevaluate the whole thing anyway.And I rather agree with both Lorraine and Blue J. I think the man should ask for at least the first three dates and pay for those dates. As I recall, he's well-rewarded at the end of date #3.I only went out on two "first dates" in my entire life. I did pretty well on both but for different reasons.... ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narps Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then! :d13: 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troutman Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then! :d13: Sh**! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then! :d13: Sh**! You think it's too late to call her and remind her? :P 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troutman Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then! :d13: Sh**! You think it's too late to call her and remind her? :P It's your dime not mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive. But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive? I didn't mean to offend anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive. But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive? I didn't mean to offend anyone.I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troutman Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive. But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive? I didn't mean to offend anyone.I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Analog Grownup Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive. But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive? I didn't mean to offend anyone.I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out. It was pretty obvious. I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorraine Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive. But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive? I didn't mean to offend anyone.I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out. It was pretty obvious. I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry. It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used. Thank you for your apology. :) 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troutman Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive. But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive? I didn't mean to offend anyone.I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out. It was pretty obvious. I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry. It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used. Thank you for your apology. :) Life is back to normal!! :dweez: :7up: :D 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatLightInYourEyes Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 The inviter should pay....... Then receive oral. Seems fair Come to think of it, I know a certain young lady who owes me a blowjob then!I usually keep quiet when threads get like this, but you know something? What you wrote is offensive. But you didn't find what Umoveme wrote offensive? I didn't mean to offend anyone.I was not sure what she meant by that. And I wasn't interested enough to find out. It was pretty obvious. I was in a bad mood when I made my first post in here, which I probably shouldn't have. I tried to change it by being witty. Obviously I failed. I'm not the kind who intentionally seek to offend people here, and I think my history proves it. Nonetheless I have offended you and for that I'm sorry. It may be obvious to you, but I am not in my early twenties, and I don't hob-nob with women that generally talk like that, so I wouldn't know the latest crudities being used. Thank you for your apology. :) I guess I'm lucky that my maturity level is stunted by about ten years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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