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Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)

Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.

 

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

 

I found her very unattractive. Never understood all the hoopla around her.

 

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

 

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it. She always seemed a little creepy to me.

 

Just a little? I never understood it either. She was creepy as hell.

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Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)

Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.

 

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

 

I found her very unattractive. Never understood all the hoopla around her.

 

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

 

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it. She always seemed a little creepy to me.

 

Just a little? I never understood it either. She was creepy as hell.

Honestly I felt bad for her. Her son died very strangely and then she died from grief afterwards. :(

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Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)

Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.

 

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

 

I found her very unattractive. Never understood all the hoopla around her.

 

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

 

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it. She always seemed a little creepy to me.

 

Just a little? I never understood it either. She was creepy as hell.

Honestly I felt bad for her. Her son died very strangely and then she died from grief afterwards. :(

I kind of felt bad for her even before that. Growing up poor and of limited intelligence and being prized (and used) for one thing. Plus it has to be painful to carry those things around all the time.

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Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)

Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.

 

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

 

I found her very unattractive. Never understood all the hoopla around her.

 

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

 

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it. She always seemed a little creepy to me.

 

Just a little? I never understood it either. She was creepy as hell.

Honestly I felt bad for her. Her son died very strangely and then she died from grief afterwards. :(

I kind of felt bad for her even before that. Growing up poor and of limited intelligence and being prized (and used) for one thing. Plus it has to be painful to carry those things around all the time.

 

I felt sorry for her too. With her son dying and the court case over her husbands estate. I think she was a little mentally unstable and all the drugs didn't help.

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

 

Ok, I'll bite. Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

 

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more. I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.

Got's to throw some Helen Mirren in there. Still kicking it in here bikini at 66

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

 

Ok, I'll bite. Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

 

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more. I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.

Got's to throw some Helen Mirren in there. Still kicking it in here bikini at 66

Christie Brinkley is still doing bikini shots and she's 60!!

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Men are wired to like boobies and curvy hips and women are wired to like cash and stuff.......and musicianship :-D

 

I'm oversimplifying but it kinda IS that simple.

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This explains why I had so much trouble getting with my friend's mom.

 

 

You have to go with the bow tie.....

 

 

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_d_klq5eg1Ck/Swm-fOmmj2I/AAAAAAAAAB4/rMCKuMC53gw/s1600/stiflers-mom.jpg

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Seems to me this is only what looks attractive to you, not about who you would want to date.

 

Nothing shallow about seeing 5 girls and finding a 20 year old with a great body most attractive, is there?

 

Now if I wouldn't date a girl over 25, that would be shallow.

 

Am I missing something?

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Seems to me this is only what looks attractive to you, not about who you would want to date.

 

Nothing shallow about seeing 5 girls and finding a 20 year old with a great body most attractive, is there?

 

Now if I wouldn't date a girl over 25, that would be shallow.

 

Am I missing something?

I dunno if you met a girl who was 25 and you liked her and she liked you and you were both available and everything clicked I think it'd be fine. I mean I bet you wouldn't turn it down if it happened with you under those circumstances...

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

 

Ok, I'll bite. Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

 

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

 

For the most part? Do you have a more concrete way of describing this? It sounds like the vast majority. I hope you don't really believe that. I have been married for 25 years next April and have no intention of running away with a younger woman. However, in a physical sense, I would say that, on average, I find a woman in the 23-38 age bracket more attractive than women close to my own age. That might just be the way we are and should not be denounced simply for existing. Of course, this is not a rule. Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more. I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.

 

 

You say that you have no intention of running away with younger women and you're making this rather personal and being a tiny bit defensive. Yet, you have images of women who I'm pretty sure are all under 35 in your signature AND you talk about being married and how rare it is to find women your own age attractive. So obviously women have more of an expiration date for you as well, once again I believe my point has been proven.

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

Geddy Lee is, too...and it doesn't do him any harm

 

right ladies? ;)

 

Yeah but he's Geddy Lee, it's not like I go around checking 60-year-olds out, heh.

But Geddy Lee is a man which means he's horrible, right?

 

 

Mot-likely. And if he were to become single he probably wouldn't be interested in my saggy 31-year-old boobs and butt.

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

 

Ok, I'll bite. Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

 

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

 

For the most part? Do you have a more concrete way of describing this? It sounds like the vast majority. I hope you don't really believe that. I have been married for 25 years next April and have no intention of running away with a younger woman. However, in a physical sense, I would say that, on average, I find a woman in the 23-38 age bracket more attractive than women close to my own age. That might just be the way we are and should not be denounced simply for existing. Of course, this is not a rule. Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more. I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.

 

 

You say that you have no intention of running away with younger women and you're making this rather personal and being a tiny bit defensive. Yet, you have images of women who I'm pretty sure are all under 35 in your signature AND you talk about being married and how rare it is to find women your own age attractive. So obviously women have more of an expiration date for you as well, once again I believe my point has been proven.

One thing about your point proven or not, it's not really a decision instead more of as biological inclination that you don't have any control over. You don't walk down the street and decide to be attracted to the young 20-something girl in the blue dress, it just hits you out of the blue. What do you suggest to ward against this? Drugs?

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

Geddy Lee is, too...and it doesn't do him any harm

 

right ladies? ;)

 

Yeah but he's Geddy Lee, it's not like I go around checking 60-year-olds out, heh.

But Geddy Lee is a man which means he's horrible, right?

 

 

Mot-likely. And if he were to become single he probably wouldn't be interested in my saggy 31-year-old boobs and butt.

Why should he be faulted for who he fancies, how can he control it? Should you be faulted for not liking the obnoxious old guy down the street? No,

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

Geddy Lee is, too...and it doesn't do him any harm

 

right ladies? ;)

 

Yeah but he's Geddy Lee, it's not like I go around checking 60-year-olds out, heh.

But Geddy Lee is a man which means he's horrible, right?

 

 

Mot-likely. And if he were to become single he probably wouldn't be interested in my saggy 31-year-old boobs and butt.

 

In for pics.

 

 

 

http://i1239.photobucket.com/albums/ff508/blackcc/GIFs/SeAt72Y_zps541b70fa.gif

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

 

Ok, I'll bite. Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

 

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

 

For the most part? Do you have a more concrete way of describing this? It sounds like the vast majority. I hope you don't really believe that. I have been married for 25 years next April and have no intention of running away with a younger woman. However, in a physical sense, I would say that, on average, I find a woman in the 23-38 age bracket more attractive than women close to my own age. That might just be the way we are and should not be denounced simply for existing. Of course, this is not a rule. Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more. I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.

 

 

You say that you have no intention of running away with younger women and you're making this rather personal and being a tiny bit defensive. Yet, you have images of women who I'm pretty sure are all under 35 in your signature AND you talk about being married and how rare it is to find women your own age attractive. So obviously women have more of an expiration date for you as well, once again I believe my point has been proven.

One thing about your point proven or not, it's not really a decision instead more of as biological inclination that you don't have any control over. You don't walk down the street and decide to be attracted to the young 20-something girl in the blue dress, it just hits you out of the blue. What do you suggest to ward against this? Drugs?

 

I call bullshit. I can find men of all ages attractive, one isn't more "attractive" than the other because he's younger, I can give them all a shot and find things attractive about all of them. I think men can do the same. I really find this to be more of a sociological issue than a biological one.

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

Geddy Lee is, too...and it doesn't do him any harm

 

right ladies? ;)

 

Yeah but he's Geddy Lee, it's not like I go around checking 60-year-olds out, heh.

But Geddy Lee is a man which means he's horrible, right?

 

 

Mot-likely. And if he were to become single he probably wouldn't be interested in my saggy 31-year-old boobs and butt.

Why should he be faulted for who he fancies, how can he control it? Should you be faulted for not liking the obnoxious old guy down the street? No,

 

Because it's never enough for men. We can never be young enough, firm enough, thin enough, etc... You can control it by controlling your own damn mind and keeping it open but men aren't willing to do that.

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

 

Ok, I'll bite. Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

 

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

 

For the most part? Do you have a more concrete way of describing this? It sounds like the vast majority. I hope you don't really believe that. I have been married for 25 years next April and have no intention of running away with a younger woman. However, in a physical sense, I would say that, on average, I find a woman in the 23-38 age bracket more attractive than women close to my own age. That might just be the way we are and should not be denounced simply for existing. Of course, this is not a rule. Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more. I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.

 

 

You say that you have no intention of running away with younger women and you're making this rather personal and being a tiny bit defensive. Yet, you have images of women who I'm pretty sure are all under 35 in your signature AND you talk about being married and how rare it is to find women your own age attractive. So obviously women have more of an expiration date for you as well, once again I believe my point has been proven.

One thing about your point proven or not, it's not really a decision instead more of as biological inclination that you don't have any control over. You don't walk down the street and decide to be attracted to the young 20-something girl in the blue dress, it just hits you out of the blue. What do you suggest to ward against this? Drugs?

 

I call bullshit. I can find men of all ages attractive, one isn't more "attractive" than the other because he's younger, I can give them all a shot and find things attractive about all of them. I think men can do the same. I really find this to be more of a sociological issue than a biological one.

No you cannot dispute my point, you like what you like, you don't decide to like certain people. Maybe you do, but I don't. I like who I like and there's no rhyme or reason.

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

Geddy Lee is, too...and it doesn't do him any harm

 

right ladies? ;)

 

Yeah but he's Geddy Lee, it's not like I go around checking 60-year-olds out, heh.

But Geddy Lee is a man which means he's horrible, right?

 

 

Mot-likely. And if he were to become single he probably wouldn't be interested in my saggy 31-year-old boobs and butt.

Why should he be faulted for who he fancies, how can he control it? Should you be faulted for not liking the obnoxious old guy down the street? No,

 

Because it's never enough for men. We can never be young enough, firm enough, thin enough, etc... You can control it by controlling your own damn mind and keeping it open but men aren't willing to do that.

See this is something that you shouldn't worry about, why worry what men like? f**k em. Just be yourself and if that's not good enough then you're better off anyway. Remember you can't control what other people think and that includes what other women think, so why worry about it?

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Seems to me this is only what looks attractive to you, not about who you would want to date.

 

Nothing shallow about seeing 5 girls and finding a 20 year old with a great body most attractive, is there?

 

Now if I wouldn't date a girl over 25, that would be shallow.

 

Am I missing something?

I dunno if you met a girl who was 25 and you liked her and she liked you and you were both available and everything clicked I think it'd be fine. I mean I bet you wouldn't turn it down if it happened with you under those circumstances...

 

That's my point. If some young 25 year old (and I wasn't married) was hitting on me (assuming her blindness was only temporary and her eyes weren't milky) I would not have a problem with it. But her age wouldn't matter to me at all is my point. If I find her attractive, I find her attractive.

 

Hell I think Heather Locklear (sp?) and Michelle Pfeifer (sp?) are damn hot and they're both older than me.

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Seems to me this is only what looks attractive to you, not about who you would want to date.

 

Nothing shallow about seeing 5 girls and finding a 20 year old with a great body most attractive, is there?

 

Now if I wouldn't date a girl over 25, that would be shallow.

 

Am I missing something?

I dunno if you met a girl who was 25 and you liked her and she liked you and you were both available and everything clicked I think it'd be fine. I mean I bet you wouldn't turn it down if it happened with you under those circumstances...

 

That's my point. If some young 25 year old (and I wasn't married) was hitting on me (assuming her blindness was only temporary and her eyes weren't milky) I would not have a problem with it. But her age wouldn't matter to me at all is my point. If I find her attractive, I find her attractive.

 

Hell I think Heather Locklear (sp?) and Michelle Pfeifer (sp?) are damn hot and they're both older than me.

And there's always these ladies...

 

http://i.imgur.com/iMKyxY2.jpg

 

http://i.imgur.com/V2qbXUh.jpg

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Can you find women you find attractive that don't have access to a beauty team, personal trainers, and plastic surgeons?
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Can you find women you find attractive that don't have access to a beauty team, personal trainers, and plastic surgeons?

So now what are you saying? They're old enough but that's all wrong because they look too good? :LOL:

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