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#1 Mara

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 03:30 PM

Just random musings from an idle mind....

What, to you, makes a kiss great/perfect?

I mean, it's easy to list things that make a kiss bad, like bad breath, too much saliva, or a dead fish tongue that just sort of flops into your mouth and lies there like a big wet....blob.

Of course there are many, many contexts in play as well.  Like first date vs. booty call, for example.

For me, soft, sensitive lips are a must, to name one thing.  There needs to be lip action and movement, not just pressing them against mine. I'm sure I'll think of some other things.

Edit: I did think of something else.  I like it when the other person lightly traces the outline of my lips with just the tip of his tongue between kisses. I also love soft little kisses on the neck.

Anyone else?  I know this is in NWW, but I'd love to know the guys' perspective as well.

Edited by Mara, 14 June 2015 - 08:43 PM.


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Posted 14 June 2015 - 04:21 PM

The right person's lips

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 04:48 PM

The correct attitude which would be the joy and pleasure of your partner being first and foremost in your thinking. I have found over the years that the lips themselves matter as well. The size or volumn of the lips changes the sensation and I will leave it there... :)

Edited by Narps, 14 June 2015 - 04:48 PM.


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Posted 14 June 2015 - 05:11 PM

^^^^ I should clarify that these observations are mostly from my recolections and not recent events... :)

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 05:32 PM

Chapped lips or the presence of a cold sore would be turn offs..

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 05:37 PM

I've forgotten. :(

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 05:39 PM

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 06:20 PM

View PostRushCanuck, on 14 June 2015 - 05:32 PM, said:

Chapped lips or the presence of a cold sore would be turn offs..
:scared: Indeed they would...

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 06:21 PM

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I've forgotten. :(
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Posted 14 June 2015 - 06:41 PM

View PostNarps, on 14 June 2015 - 06:21 PM, said:

View PostEagleMoon, on 14 June 2015 - 05:37 PM, said:

I've forgotten. :(
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Posted 14 June 2015 - 06:41 PM

What makes a good kiss?

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 07:12 PM

View PostAncient Ways, on 14 June 2015 - 04:21 PM, said:

The right person's lips
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Posted 14 June 2015 - 07:17 PM

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HAHAHA! However, this is about kissing, not touching yourself.

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 07:20 PM

Alright... a good kiss, for me, are those soft little small kisses where you get just a flick of tongue. I don't like, full on, check-to-see-if-I-still-have-my-tonsils kiss, unless it's in the throws of passion but the moment has to be just right. I like kisses that tease.

Edited by Janie, 14 June 2015 - 07:43 PM.


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Posted 14 June 2015 - 09:00 PM

Well for me personally, it has to involve me in there or I don't think it's any good. :hail:

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 09:21 PM

I like kisses that are a little more "aggressive", if that makes sense.  Nothing too passive.  I want someone to kiss me like they mean it, and I will do the same.

Also, I think it is SO HOT when the other person runs their hand down your face and neck as they are kissing you.

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Posted 14 June 2015 - 09:49 PM

View Postx1yyz, on 14 June 2015 - 09:21 PM, said:

I like kisses that are a little more "aggressive", if that makes sense.  Nothing too passive.  I want someone to kiss me like they mean it, and I will do the same.

Also, I think it is SO HOT when the other person runs their hand down your face and neck as they are kissing you.
Aggressive kissing has its place, unless the other person has facial hair. I have ended up looking like the carrier of some nasty mouth/skin disease after making out with a guy with a goatee.

And oh yeah, holding someone's face hard (not passive - not with a light touch) is incredibly sexy. I love having my face held tight against the other in a passionate kiss.

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Posted 15 June 2015 - 03:49 AM

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Posted 15 June 2015 - 03:51 AM

View PostRushCanuck, on 14 June 2015 - 05:32 PM, said:

Chapped lips or the presence of a cold sore would be turn offs..

Jesus H. Christ, I hope so!
Calling Dr. Herpes!




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