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Posted 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 09:50 PM

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 09:59 PM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 09:50 PM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.
The husband was about 98 years old he'd probably be happy getting some attention from a dead female poodle fished from the canal.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 10:04 PM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious.  Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.


It's like that sometimes, but we must not forget about human male biology.   We men remain fertile until very late in life, and we never completely lose our animal instinct to impregnate young, fertile females.  

Allow me to reiterate this point.... :D.....we NEVER lose our attraction to young, fertile females.  :drool:  We may not act upon our animal instincts, but deep down inside, we certainly wish that we could...... :doh:

Edited by Principled Man, 07 June 2014 - 10:12 PM.


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Posted 08 June 2014 - 04:51 AM

Treeduck...that sig is hilarious!  :LMAO:




But, you are going to change it back....right? :unsure:

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 05:49 AM

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Treeduck...that sig is hilarious!  :LMAO:




But, you are going to change it back....right? :unsure:
:rfl: It is quite funny. :lol:

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 08:05 AM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 09:50 PM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.
It was her huge rack.

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 08:22 AM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 09:50 PM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it.  She always seemed a little creepy to me.

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 11:02 AM

View PostAncient Ways, on 08 June 2014 - 08:22 AM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 09:50 PM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it.  She always seemed a little creepy to me.

Just a little? I never understood it either. She was creepy as hell.

Edited by EagleMoon, 08 June 2014 - 11:03 AM.


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Posted 08 June 2014 - 12:12 PM

View PostYour_Lion, on 08 June 2014 - 04:51 AM, said:

Treeduck...that sig is hilarious!  :LMAO:




But, you are going to change it back....right? :unsure:
I dunno...maybe this is the new me! :eh: :o :outtahere:

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 12:37 PM

View PostEagleMoon, on 08 June 2014 - 11:02 AM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 08 June 2014 - 08:22 AM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 09:50 PM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it.  She always seemed a little creepy to me.

Just a little? I never understood it either. She was creepy as hell.
Honestly I felt bad for her. Her son died very strangely and then she died from grief afterwards. :(

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 03:02 PM

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 08 June 2014 - 12:37 PM, said:

View PostEagleMoon, on 08 June 2014 - 11:02 AM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 08 June 2014 - 08:22 AM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 09:50 PM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it.  She always seemed a little creepy to me.

Just a little? I never understood it either. She was creepy as hell.
Honestly I felt bad for her. Her son died very strangely and then she died from grief afterwards. :(
I kind of felt bad for her even before that.    Growing up poor and of limited intelligence and being prized (and used) for one thing.   Plus it has to be painful to carry those things around all the time.

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 04:45 PM

View Postlaughedatbytime, on 08 June 2014 - 03:02 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 08 June 2014 - 12:37 PM, said:

View PostEagleMoon, on 08 June 2014 - 11:02 AM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 08 June 2014 - 08:22 AM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 09:50 PM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 09:43 PM, said:

View PostYa_Big_Tree, on 07 June 2014 - 08:07 PM, said:

Well speaking from personal experience… I think men when they get older have enough complications and seriousness in their lives and they are looking for fun without anything real or serious. (we've all done that)
Sometimes that can last longer than a fling if they find they actually love each other but a lot of times it's just the novelty and once it's worn off it's time for a new model. Kinda like a car I guess.  

Older men who have no worries about money and are divorced or never married and have little to pay for anymore like to find someone fun to spend their money on for a bit but then that's when you get those pesky gold diggers… Ahem Anna Nicole Smith…

I found her very unattractive.  Never understood all the hoopla around her.

I think it was her whole party-girl personae… he obviously felt that she made him feel younger or happier and again didn't want anything complicated. It was probably an arrangement of sorts that she would be taken care of if she gave him a great last few years of fun.

I know why the old man liked her, but younger guys were all over it too and I never got it.  She always seemed a little creepy to me.

Just a little? I never understood it either. She was creepy as hell.
Honestly I felt bad for her. Her son died very strangely and then she died from grief afterwards. :(
I kind of felt bad for her even before that.    Growing up poor and of limited intelligence and being prized (and used) for one thing.   Plus it has to be painful to carry those things around all the time.

I felt sorry for her too. With her son dying and the court case over her husbands estate. I think she was a little mentally unstable and all the drugs didn't help.

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 08:54 PM

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View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 10:36 AM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 10:24 AM, said:

Also, more proof that men are horrible.

Ok, I'll bite.  Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.
Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more.  I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.
Got's to throw some Helen Mirren in there. Still kicking it in here bikini at 66

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Posted 08 June 2014 - 11:28 PM

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View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 07:03 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 10:39 AM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 10:36 AM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 10:24 AM, said:

Also, more proof that men are horrible.

Ok, I'll bite.  Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.
Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more.  I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.
Got's to throw some Helen Mirren in there. Still kicking it in here bikini at 66
Christie Brinkley is still doing bikini shots and she's 60!!

Edited by Ya_Big_Tree, 08 June 2014 - 11:29 PM.


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Posted 08 June 2014 - 11:48 PM

Men are wired to like boobies and curvy hips and women are wired to like cash and stuff.......and musicianship :-D

I'm oversimplifying but it  kinda IS that simple.

Edited by umoveme, 08 June 2014 - 11:51 PM.


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Posted 09 June 2014 - 11:13 AM

This explains why I had so much trouble getting with my friend's mom.

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Posted 09 June 2014 - 11:18 AM

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This explains why I had so much trouble getting with my friend's mom.


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