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#21 laughedatbytime

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 01:12 PM

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This is no real surprise. I think the reason for a lot of it is due to how our society uses young nubile girls to sell every product under the sun. Look at all the products that are made to enhance youthfulness in older women too. It sucks and until women start standing up for themselves and stop feeling like they need to base everything in their lives on whether a man loves them, this issue will still exist.

That right there. I can't say that I've ever been actually treated all that well by males ever, it was when I finally came to the realization of that reality I stopped worrying so much about needing or wanting them. It still leaves a bitter taste in my mouth though. Maybe I'll marry another woman in my old age lol.

I have the weirdest boner right now.

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View PostEagleMoon, on 07 June 2014 - 11:35 AM, said:

This is no real surprise. I think the reason for a lot of it is due to how our society uses young nubile girls to sell every product under the sun. Look at all the products that are made to enhance youthfulness in older women too. It sucks and until women start standing up for themselves and stop feeling like they need to base everything in their lives on whether a man loves them, this issue will still exist.

That right there. I can't say that I've ever been actually treated all that well by males ever, it was when I finally came to the realization of that reality I stopped worrying so much about needing or wanting them. It still leaves a bitter taste in my mouth though. Maybe I'll marry another woman in my old age lol.

I have the weirdest boner right now.

If my husband dies or we divorce and I still want some male companionship I will take lovers.
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Oh Ged yes. Actually my husband says that can happen now should I wish lol.

Of course he only says that because he knows my chances of getting hit by lightening or winning the lottery are greater than that ever happening.
Or he'd want in on a threesome?   :huh:

No, Alex is his man crush. He has shown no interest in Geddy.
So a foursome, then?

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 01:13 PM

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

Ok, I'll bite.  Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

You must travel in some very bad/limited circles or read a lot of feminazi propaganda. Sure, there are some men who treat women badly, but I'd bet there are a lot more who don't. For every man who treats a woman as "disposable garbage" (as opposed to garbage you'd want to keep), there is a young woman who is in a relationship with an older, rich guy for the perks. It works both ways.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 01:24 PM

View Postlaughedatbytime, on 07 June 2014 - 01:12 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 01:09 PM, said:

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View PostDr. Sheldon Cooper, on 07 June 2014 - 12:20 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 12:00 PM, said:

View PostEagleMoon, on 07 June 2014 - 11:35 AM, said:

This is no real surprise. I think the reason for a lot of it is due to how our society uses young nubile girls to sell every product under the sun. Look at all the products that are made to enhance youthfulness in older women too. It sucks and until women start standing up for themselves and stop feeling like they need to base everything in their lives on whether a man loves them, this issue will still exist.

That right there. I can't say that I've ever been actually treated all that well by males ever, it was when I finally came to the realization of that reality I stopped worrying so much about needing or wanting them. It still leaves a bitter taste in my mouth though. Maybe I'll marry another woman in my old age lol.

I have the weirdest boner right now.

View PostDr. Sheldon Cooper, on 07 June 2014 - 12:20 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 12:00 PM, said:

View PostEagleMoon, on 07 June 2014 - 11:35 AM, said:

This is no real surprise. I think the reason for a lot of it is due to how our society uses young nubile girls to sell every product under the sun. Look at all the products that are made to enhance youthfulness in older women too. It sucks and until women start standing up for themselves and stop feeling like they need to base everything in their lives on whether a man loves them, this issue will still exist.

That right there. I can't say that I've ever been actually treated all that well by males ever, it was when I finally came to the realization of that reality I stopped worrying so much about needing or wanting them. It still leaves a bitter taste in my mouth though. Maybe I'll marry another woman in my old age lol.

I have the weirdest boner right now.

If my husband dies or we divorce and I still want some male companionship I will take lovers.
Like this?

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Oh Ged yes. Actually my husband says that can happen now should I wish lol.

Of course he only says that because he knows my chances of getting hit by lightening or winning the lottery are greater than that ever happening.
Or he'd want in on a threesome?   :huh:

No, Alex is his man crush. He has shown no interest in Geddy.
So a foursome, then?

No, he and Alex can go off and pluck their Gibsons.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 01:25 PM

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

Ok, I'll bite.  Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

You must travel in some very bad/limited circles or read a lot of feminazi propaganda. Sure, there are some men who treat women badly, but I'd bet there are a lot more who don't. For every man who treats a woman as "disposable garbage" (as opposed to garbage you'd want to keep), there is a young woman who is in a relationship with an older, rich guy for the perks. It works both ways.

Yeah as much as I'd like those two things you mentioned to be the case they aren't. Your mention of how older, richer men go for younger women kind of proves my point.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 02:05 PM

I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 02:24 PM

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

And you have pictures of a 20-year-old in your signature...

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 02:30 PM

View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 02:05 PM, said:

I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:
Geddy Lee is, too...and it doesn't do him any harm

right ladies? ;)

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 02:35 PM

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View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 02:05 PM, said:

I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:
Geddy Lee is, too...and it doesn't do him any harm

right ladies? ;)

Yeah but he's Geddy Lee, it's not like I go around checking 60-year-olds out, heh.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 02:40 PM

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

And you have pictures of a 20-year-old in your signature...

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 03:14 PM

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

And you have pictures of a 20-year-old in your signature...
Naaa she's 33.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 03:30 PM

View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 03:14 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 02:24 PM, said:

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I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

And you have pictures of a 20-year-old in your signature...
Naaa she's 33.

And you're older than 46?

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 03:34 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 02:35 PM, said:

View PostYour_Lion, on 07 June 2014 - 02:30 PM, said:

View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 02:05 PM, said:

I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:
Geddy Lee is, too...and it doesn't do him any harm

right ladies? ;)

Yeah but he's Geddy Lee, it's not like I go around checking 60-year-olds out, heh.
But Geddy Lee is a man which means he's horrible, right?

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 03:34 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 03:30 PM, said:

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View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 02:05 PM, said:

I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

And you have pictures of a 20-year-old in your signature...
Naaa she's 33.

And you're older than 46?
Yep.

#34 gangsterfurious

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 03:43 PM

View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 03:34 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 03:30 PM, said:

View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 03:14 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 02:24 PM, said:

View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 02:05 PM, said:

I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

And you have pictures of a 20-year-old in your signature...
Naaa she's 33.

And you're older than 46?
Yep.

:eyeroll:

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 03:44 PM

View Postlaughedatbytime, on 07 June 2014 - 01:00 PM, said:

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View PostEagleMoon, on 07 June 2014 - 11:35 AM, said:

This is no real surprise. I think the reason for a lot of it is due to how our society uses young nubile girls to sell every product under the sun. Look at all the products that are made to enhance youthfulness in older women too. It sucks and until women start standing up for themselves and stop feeling like they need to base everything in their lives on whether a man loves them, this issue will still exist.

That right there. I can't say that I've ever been actually treated all that well by males ever, it was when I finally came to the realization of that reality I stopped worrying so much about needing or wanting them. It still leaves a bitter taste in my mouth though. Maybe I'll marry another woman in my old age lol.

I have the weirdest boner right now.

View PostDr. Sheldon Cooper, on 07 June 2014 - 12:20 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 12:00 PM, said:

View PostEagleMoon, on 07 June 2014 - 11:35 AM, said:

This is no real surprise. I think the reason for a lot of it is due to how our society uses young nubile girls to sell every product under the sun. Look at all the products that are made to enhance youthfulness in older women too. It sucks and until women start standing up for themselves and stop feeling like they need to base everything in their lives on whether a man loves them, this issue will still exist.

That right there. I can't say that I've ever been actually treated all that well by males ever, it was when I finally came to the realization of that reality I stopped worrying so much about needing or wanting them. It still leaves a bitter taste in my mouth though. Maybe I'll marry another woman in my old age lol.

I have the weirdest boner right now.

If my husband dies or we divorce and I still want some male companionship I will take lovers.
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Hel~lo..!    :wub:

#36 treeduck

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 03:45 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 03:43 PM, said:

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View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 03:30 PM, said:

View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 03:14 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 02:24 PM, said:

View Posttreeduck, on 07 June 2014 - 02:05 PM, said:

I'm older than any of the male ages on the women's list :boohoo:

And you have pictures of a 20-year-old in your signature...
Naaa she's 33.

And you're older than 46?
Yep.

:eyeroll:
:huh:

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 04:31 PM

Dying here. OMG treeduck :rfl:

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 05:36 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 01:25 PM, said:

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View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 10:39 AM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 10:36 AM, said:

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Also, more proof that men are horrible.

Ok, I'll bite.  Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

You must travel in some very bad/limited circles or read a lot of feminazi propaganda. Sure, there are some men who treat women badly, but I'd bet there are a lot more who don't. For every man who treats a woman as "disposable garbage" (as opposed to garbage you'd want to keep), there is a young woman who is in a relationship with an older, rich guy for the perks. It works both ways.

Yeah as much as I'd like those two things you mentioned to be the case they aren't. Your mention of how older, richer men go for younger women kind of proves my point.

Do you honestly think that that "older, richer men" going for younger women is a one way street? If so, you're deluding yourself and when you make statements like, "Yeah as much as I'd like those two things you mentioned to be the case they aren't" it tells me you pretty much are.

What would cause a younger woman to go for a much older man? Sure, some of them might be in love, but a sizable number of them see dollar signs and/or material things. Besides, an older man can only acquire a younger woman if she agrees.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 05:51 PM

View PostFordgalaxy, on 07 June 2014 - 05:36 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 01:25 PM, said:

View PostFordgalaxy, on 07 June 2014 - 01:13 PM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 10:39 AM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 10:36 AM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 10:24 AM, said:

Also, more proof that men are horrible.

Ok, I'll bite.  Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

You must travel in some very bad/limited circles or read a lot of feminazi propaganda. Sure, there are some men who treat women badly, but I'd bet there are a lot more who don't. For every man who treats a woman as "disposable garbage" (as opposed to garbage you'd want to keep), there is a young woman who is in a relationship with an older, rich guy for the perks. It works both ways.

Yeah as much as I'd like those two things you mentioned to be the case they aren't. Your mention of how older, richer men go for younger women kind of proves my point.

Do you honestly think that that "older, richer men" going for younger women is a one way street? If so, you're deluding yourself and when you make statements like, "Yeah as much as I'd like those two things you mentioned to be the case they aren't" it tells me you pretty much are.

What would cause a younger woman to go for a much older man? Sure, some of them might be in love, but a sizable number of them see dollar signs and/or material things. Besides, an older man can only acquire a younger woman if she agrees.

A lot of younger women feel safe with an older man. It's kind of a father thing.

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Posted 07 June 2014 - 07:03 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 10:39 AM, said:

View PostAncient Ways, on 07 June 2014 - 10:36 AM, said:

View Postgangsterfurious, on 07 June 2014 - 10:24 AM, said:

Also, more proof that men are horrible.

Ok, I'll bite.  Why does this, in any way, show that men are horrible?

Because for the most part men treat women like disposable garbage to be thrown out past a certain age, which sadly is much younger than I expected but I'm not at all surprised.

For the most part?  Do you have a more concrete way of describing this?   It sounds like the vast majority.  I hope you don't really believe that.  I have been married for 25 years next April and have no intention of running away with a younger woman.  However, in a physical sense, I would say that, on average, I find a woman in the 23-38 age bracket more attractive than women close to my own age.  That might just be the way we are and should not be denounced simply for existing.  Of course, this is not a rule.  Plenty of women closer to my age are attractive including some that are older such as Cindy Crawford (48), Jane Seymour (63), Diane lane (49) and more.  I think we'd be better off understanding differences between men and women and only denouncing bad behavior not the preferences.




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