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#21 Blue J

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Posted 23 March 2014 - 02:37 PM


View PostRushFlyer2112, on 23 March 2014 - 11:14 AM, said:

Awwww you all are all so very good and very lovingly as you all can be love ya all so very much here and to BabyCat: don't worry about stuff that put you down that why I needed to talk to somebody on here yesterday

This means that things have improved already, then?

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and now you can always rush up to me and talk

I see how you did that, there. Nice. ;)

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Posted 23 March 2014 - 02:40 PM

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View PostBabycat, on 23 March 2014 - 04:16 AM, said:

I don't think I've ever posted this before, but there have been a fair number of times when I feel down a lot. Sometimes I just want to disappear, other times I want to curl up and die. I've felt like this for a long, long time, this cold and empty feeling, since I was a child. An alcoholic parent and people treating me like I was a disease didn't exactly help.
That's sad to hear, Bbyatca. You've always been so caring and positive since I've known you. You're certainly well loved around here. If you ever feel down and need to talk, we'll be here :hug2:

I can sympathize with this. It's just...life. I consider myself to be a very positive person also, but sometimes the old demons are just right there with me. I've posted about it here at some of those times, too.

:hug2: to those of you who need it.

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Posted 23 March 2014 - 04:22 PM

View PostCyclonus X-1, on 23 March 2014 - 01:47 PM, said:

View PostYour_Lion, on 23 March 2014 - 06:57 AM, said:

View PostBabycat, on 23 March 2014 - 04:16 AM, said:

I don't think I've ever posted this before, but there have been a fair number of times when I feel down a lot. Sometimes I just want to disappear, other times I want to curl up and die. I've felt like this for a long, long time, this cold and empty feeling, since I was a child. An alcoholic parent and people treating me like I was a disease didn't exactly help.
That's sad to hear, Bbyatca. You've always been so caring and positive since I've known you. You're certainly well loved around here. If you ever feel down and need to talk, we'll be here :hug2:

Yes, everything Your_Lion said.

Whatever else you're dealing with, Babycat, know that you have friends who are loyal to you here.  :madra:

Thank you for your kind comments - I do so love all of you...   :)

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Posted 23 March 2014 - 04:23 PM

View PostBlue J, on 23 March 2014 - 02:40 PM, said:

View PostYour_Lion, on 23 March 2014 - 06:57 AM, said:

View PostBabycat, on 23 March 2014 - 04:16 AM, said:

I don't think I've ever posted this before, but there have been a fair number of times when I feel down a lot. Sometimes I just want to disappear, other times I want to curl up and die. I've felt like this for a long, long time, this cold and empty feeling, since I was a child. An alcoholic parent and people treating me like I was a disease didn't exactly help.
That's sad to hear, Bbyatca. You've always been so caring and positive since I've known you. You're certainly well loved around here. If you ever feel down and need to talk, we'll be here :hug2:

I can sympathize with this. It's just...life. I consider myself to be a very positive person also, but sometimes the old demons are just right there with me. I've posted about it here at some of those times, too.

:hug2: to those of you who need it.

:hug2:   for you too   :)

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Posted 23 March 2014 - 08:30 PM

View PostRushFlyer2112, on 22 March 2014 - 08:24 PM, said:

Hi I just need someone to talk to me
Hello RushFlyer2112, I know you don't know me, but I'm always here to talk.

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Posted 23 March 2014 - 08:31 PM

View PostBabycat, on 23 March 2014 - 04:16 AM, said:

I don't think I've ever posted this before, but there have been a fair number of times when I feel down a lot. Sometimes I just want to disappear, other times I want to curl up and die. I've felt like this for a long, long time, this cold and empty feeling, since I was a child. An alcoholic parent and people treating me like I was a disease didn't exactly help.
I know that feeling all too well. I was physically and emotionally tormented as a child and lost my Dad to alcoholism. I’ll never understand why bad things happen, and why it’s usually the good people who suffer. The way I look at it is I must be much stronger than I give myself credit for, otherwise I wouldn’t have chosen to acknowledge it. They say that the body has a certain pain tolerance, and I believe that applies to the mind as well. You can only take so much before you become numb to reality. I’ve reached that stage many times, believe me. I know it may not always feel like it at times, but there are people out there that care and are willing to help.

Edited by Intermolecular Reality, 23 March 2014 - 08:37 PM.


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Posted 24 March 2014 - 09:09 AM

:hug2:

Hugs for everybody.

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 10:57 AM

Hello and thanks you again IR!!!!!

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 11:26 AM

Rushflyer, you are not alone in how you are feeling.  If you only knew how often this place is the only bright light in my life.

TRF must go on forever.  What would many of us do without it?

Edited by Lorraine, 24 March 2014 - 11:27 AM.


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Posted 24 March 2014 - 11:36 AM

Awww that's so sweet of you Lorraine miss ya

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 11:48 AM

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 11:26 AM, said:

Rushflyer, you are not alone in how you are feeling.  If you only knew how often this place is the only bright light in my life.

TRF must go on forever.  What would many of us do without it?
Hello :), I've been wondering how you were. Yes, it should. Without this site I would have absolutely no social interaction with other people, aside from the occasional "Hi, how are you?" I always respond with "Good, fine." when that really isn't true. I think that's just an attempt to avoid further conversation, because I assume they wouldn't understand or care. Here you can tell that people genuinely care and many people share the same feelings and experiences.

Edited by Intermolecular Reality, 24 March 2014 - 11:55 AM.


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Posted 24 March 2014 - 12:07 PM

View PostIntermolecular Reality, on 24 March 2014 - 11:48 AM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 11:26 AM, said:

Rushflyer, you are not alone in how you are feeling.  If you only knew how often this place is the only bright light in my life.

TRF must go on forever.  What would many of us do without it?
Hello :), I've been wondering how you were. Yes, it should. Without this site I would have absolutely no social interaction with other people, aside from the occasional "Hi, how are you?" I always respond with "Good, fine." when that really isn't true. I think that's just an attempt to avoid further conversation, because I assume they wouldn't understand or care. Here you can tell that people genuinely care and many people share the same feelings and experiences.
Yes, I know well what you mean.  One time I attempted to give an honest answer to one of the "Hi!  How are you?" inquiries.

Never again.

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 12:12 PM

View PostBabycat, on 23 March 2014 - 04:16 AM, said:

I don't think I've ever posted this before, but there have been a fair number of times when I feel down a lot. Sometimes I just want to disappear, other times I want to curl up and die. I've felt like this for a long, long time, this cold and empty feeling, since I was a child. An alcoholic parent and people treating me like I was a disease didn't exactly help.

Babycat, you appear to deal with it well as I would never have guessed this about you at all.  We all fight inner darkness.  I think that's why many of us relate to well to The Pass.  :hug2:

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 12:12 PM

View PostRushFlyer2112, on 24 March 2014 - 11:36 AM, said:

Awww that's so sweet of you Lorraine miss ya

Good thread, RushFlyer!  Thanks for starting it!  :ebert:

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 12:35 PM

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 12:07 PM, said:

View PostIntermolecular Reality, on 24 March 2014 - 11:48 AM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 11:26 AM, said:

Rushflyer, you are not alone in how you are feeling.  If you only knew how often this place is the only bright light in my life.

TRF must go on forever.  What would many of us do without it?
Hello :), I've been wondering how you were. Yes, it should. Without this site I would have absolutely no social interaction with other people, aside from the occasional "Hi, how are you?" I always respond with "Good, fine." when that really isn't true. I think that's just an attempt to avoid further conversation, because I assume they wouldn't understand or care. Here you can tell that people genuinely care and many people share the same feelings and experiences.
Yes, I know well what you mean.  One time I attempted to give an honest answer to one of the "Hi!  How are you?" inquiries.

Never again.

Yes, I've learned that lesson the hard way. People don't really want to know what's going on, it's just a nicety of polite society.

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 12:42 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 24 March 2014 - 12:35 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 12:07 PM, said:

View PostIntermolecular Reality, on 24 March 2014 - 11:48 AM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 11:26 AM, said:

Rushflyer, you are not alone in how you are feeling.  If you only knew how often this place is the only bright light in my life.

TRF must go on forever.  What would many of us do without it?
Hello :), I've been wondering how you were. Yes, it should. Without this site I would have absolutely no social interaction with other people, aside from the occasional "Hi, how are you?" I always respond with "Good, fine." when that really isn't true. I think that's just an attempt to avoid further conversation, because I assume they wouldn't understand or care. Here you can tell that people genuinely care and many people share the same feelings and experiences.
Yes, I know well what you mean.  One time I attempted to give an honest answer to one of the "Hi!  How are you?" inquiries.

Never again.

Yes, I've learned that lesson the hard way. People don't really want to know what's going on, it's just a nicety of polite society.

I despise small talk as it is, and I wish that society would dispense with the meaningless niceties such as "How's your day going?" or "Have a nice day!".    I could do without them.  The person asking doesn't really care, so what's the point?

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 12:42 PM

View Postgangsterfurious, on 24 March 2014 - 12:35 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 12:07 PM, said:

View PostIntermolecular Reality, on 24 March 2014 - 11:48 AM, said:

Hello :), I've been wondering how you were. Yes, it should. Without this site I would have absolutely no social interaction with other people, aside from the occasional "Hi, how are you?" I always respond with "Good, fine." when that really isn't true. I think that's just an attempt to avoid further conversation, because I assume they wouldn't understand or care. Here you can tell that people genuinely care and many people share the same feelings and experiences.
Yes, I know well what you mean.  One time I attempted to give an honest answer to one of the "Hi!  How are you?" inquiries.

Never again.

Yes, I've learned that lesson the hard way. People don't really want to know what's going on, it's just a nicety of polite society.

I saw this earlier today:

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:hug2: to you all.

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 12:49 PM

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 12:12 PM, said:

View PostBabycat, on 23 March 2014 - 04:16 AM, said:

I don't think I've ever posted this before, but there have been a fair number of times when I feel down a lot. Sometimes I just want to disappear, other times I want to curl up and die. I've felt like this for a long, long time, this cold and empty feeling, since I was a child. An alcoholic parent and people treating me like I was a disease didn't exactly help.

Babycat, you appear to deal with it well as I would never have guessed this about you at all.  We all fight inner darkness.  I think that's why many of us relate to well to The Pass.  :hug2:

I have a lot of moments where it's quite hard to get out of such darkness. It stems from when I was about 5 years old. And my mother drank like a fish while carrying me. Her death hit me so hard I wanted to kill myself.

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 12:59 PM

View PostBabycat, on 24 March 2014 - 12:49 PM, said:

View PostLorraine, on 24 March 2014 - 12:12 PM, said:

View PostBabycat, on 23 March 2014 - 04:16 AM, said:

I don't think I've ever posted this before, but there have been a fair number of times when I feel down a lot. Sometimes I just want to disappear, other times I want to curl up and die. I've felt like this for a long, long time, this cold and empty feeling, since I was a child. An alcoholic parent and people treating me like I was a disease didn't exactly help.

Babycat, you appear to deal with it well as I would never have guessed this about you at all.  We all fight inner darkness.  I think that's why many of us relate to well to The Pass.  :hug2:

I have a lot of moments where it's quite hard to get out of such darkness. It stems from when I was about 5 years old. And my mother drank like a fish while carrying me. Her death hit me so hard I wanted to kill myself.

But you didn't, and I am certain I'm not the only one here that is happy you decided to turn around and "walk the razor's edge."

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Posted 24 March 2014 - 01:02 PM

Aww man BabyCat I am so very sorry about this in your life sweetheart and Lorraine is right I think that so many of us relate to "The Pass" cuz it is so very true in that song and I am so glad that Neil Peart wrote it and that Geddy Lee and Alex Lifeson (and Neil) performed this song




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