Let me ask you this: Is paying a bit to mail his CDs back to him better than Jeff going there in person and getting stabbed in the neck by a crackhead?
What you guys should do is to box up his CDs and drive over there at 3am one night, and drop the box off at his doorstep. Why confront this guy any further? From the sounds of it, you're still spending energy contacting him and trying to make him understand that he's in the wrong. Take it from me- You can't control what somebody else is going to think about you or a situation. If they're wrong and it's frustrating for you that they just won't "get it", well, control what you can control and just stay away from him from now on.
P.S: When you drop the box off at his house that night also make sure that you put all the CDs in the wrong jewel cases first. You know, for the aggravation he's already caused.
P.P.S.2: While many will automatically jump the gun about how a guy's supposed to be macho and "well MY guy would go rip his brains out" remember that in the real world any psychotic wuss can shoot a person much tougher than him and end his life, and that's that. Have the police deal with any real threats this guy might cause your family. There's no shame in not being the "macho guy defending your honor" and all that.
Oh no, a few posts ago I updated and said Jeff doesn't want to go over and face him. He was never trying to act macho but still, he said even though he would just want to talk with him, he doesn't want to risk "my anger getting the best of me. No good will come of it."
He showed me a text Phil sent him apologizing profusely, yet the next sentences were "I still don't understand WHY your wife is angry at me. I just don't." -__-
I like the leaving it at his doorstep idea. thanks!
I haven't contacted him whatsoever since yesterday morning. Only reason I replied at all was because he asked me what specifically he did to upset me so much. I told him exactly what I saw wrong with his actions, like he asked. He blatantly ignored it all and defended his actions- once I read his IM after that, I blocked him without saying another word to him.
lol I've been the one to get mad if Jeff wants to act all tough and macho for my sake
But yes, we both agree with you that Jeff shouldn't risk his safety. =]