My hubby and I have been married 18 years and yes, there have been times it has been diffcult. Of course, marriage is work and it takes work from both people. However, just today I was saying how I thought I was fat. I am 5'2 and 160 but I have good muscle tone so I don't look as heavy as I am. He looked at me and said, you are too hard on yourself and he thinks I am the most beautfiul woman. He wants me to be happy. I know I need to lose weight for health reasons but I'm not getting grief from him because he accepts me for who I am. Your husband should do the same.
If he doesn't do it now I doubt he ever will.
I hope the best for you and him....but really for you.
If you ever want to talk, please shoot me a pm.
Edited by frippy, 13 July 2013 - 07:45 PM.