Jaye Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (VampireBiscuits @ Jul 16 2008, 02:49 AM)QUOTE (Marathonist @ Jul 14 2008, 09:23 PM) QUOTE (yaoi_myantidrug @ Jul 14 2008, 01:52 AM) only thing i cant decide is if i should take them back a couple decades. theres about 35 years between us and i really miss the long hair! Older=more experienced, know what I'm sayin'? I couldnt agree more! My husband is actually 20 years my senior and I can say from experience that older guys rock!! Though thats about the only place our age difference is really apparent though. We are two perfectly matched people. And my parents thought a 35 year old guy was too old for me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VampireBiscuits Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (Jaye @ Jul 16 2008, 01:37 PM) QUOTE (VampireBiscuits @ Jul 16 2008, 02:49 AM)QUOTE (Marathonist @ Jul 14 2008, 09:23 PM) QUOTE (yaoi_myantidrug @ Jul 14 2008, 01:52 AM) only thing i cant decide is if i should take them back a couple decades. theres about 35 years between us and i really miss the long hair! Older=more experienced, know what I'm sayin'? I couldnt agree more! My husband is actually 20 years my senior and I can say from experience that older guys rock!! Though thats about the only place our age difference is really apparent though. We are two perfectly matched people. And my parents thought a 35 year old guy was too old for me! Haha! I dont think age (or gender for that matter) should be something that gets in the way of a good match/deep connection. If you love somebody than stuff like that shouldnt matter (IMO). It took my parents a little while to get used to when I first started dating older men, but they are both great friends with my husband now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenzin Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (GhostGirl @ Jul 15 2008, 08:48 PM)Eh...I dunno.... Well, there is the understatement of the year! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
librarian Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 I am finding it difficult now to think about hockying it up with "Mr. Magoo". Thanks for bursting that bubble, whoever it was... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaye Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (VampireBiscuits @ Jul 16 2008, 07:42 PM)QUOTE (Jaye @ Jul 16 2008, 01:37 PM) QUOTE (VampireBiscuits @ Jul 16 2008, 02:49 AM)QUOTE (Marathonist @ Jul 14 2008, 09:23 PM) QUOTE (yaoi_myantidrug @ Jul 14 2008, 01:52 AM) only thing i cant decide is if i should take them back a couple decades. theres about 35 years between us and i really miss the long hair! Older=more experienced, know what I'm sayin'? I couldnt agree more! My husband is actually 20 years my senior and I can say from experience that older guys rock!! Though thats about the only place our age difference is really apparent though. We are two perfectly matched people. And my parents thought a 35 year old guy was too old for me! Haha! I dont think age (or gender for that matter) should be something that gets in the way of a good match/deep connection. If you love somebody than stuff like that shouldnt matter (IMO). It took my parents a little while to get used to when I first started dating older men, but they are both great friends with my husband now. Yeah, I don't care about age much either. But it didn't matter anyway - that guy already had/has a girlfriend... story of my life.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GhostGirl Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (Jenzin @ Jul 16 2008, 01:56 PM) QUOTE (GhostGirl @ Jul 15 2008, 08:48 PM)Eh...I dunno.... Well, there is the understatement of the year! You think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ya_Big_Tree Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (Jaye @ Jul 16 2008, 02:34 PM) QUOTE (VampireBiscuits @ Jul 16 2008, 07:42 PM)QUOTE (Jaye @ Jul 16 2008, 01:37 PM) QUOTE (VampireBiscuits @ Jul 16 2008, 02:49 AM)QUOTE (Marathonist @ Jul 14 2008, 09:23 PM) QUOTE (yaoi_myantidrug @ Jul 14 2008, 01:52 AM) only thing i cant decide is if i should take them back a couple decades. theres about 35 years between us and i really miss the long hair! Older=more experienced, know what I'm sayin'? I couldnt agree more! My husband is actually 20 years my senior and I can say from experience that older guys rock!! Though thats about the only place our age difference is really apparent though. We are two perfectly matched people. And my parents thought a 35 year old guy was too old for me! Haha! I dont think age (or gender for that matter) should be something that gets in the way of a good match/deep connection. If you love somebody than stuff like that shouldnt matter (IMO). It took my parents a little while to get used to when I first started dating older men, but they are both great friends with my husband now. Yeah, I don't care about age much either. But it didn't matter anyway - that guy already had/has a girlfriend... story of my life.. Awww dont worry Jaye.. they could always... break up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IceVixen Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (Alsgalpal @ Jul 13 2008, 01:31 AM) Yeah, I have the hots for big Al, but if it came down to it... It's not worth hurting someone I love so dearly. I don't care if Alex is my idol or not. I would have to say "thanks, but no thanks." I know, boring, eh? My boyfriend and I have an agreement. IF he were to have the opportunity to boink Jessica Love Hewitt, im fine with it. If I have the opportunity to play tonsil hockey with ANY memeber of RUSH (they are a package deal, no?) then I can have at it. And, no.. im not stupid enough to stop at the Co-Ed hockey It has to be Geddy first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaye Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (Ya_Big_Tree @ Jul 16 2008, 10:37 PM)QUOTE (Jaye @ Jul 16 2008, 02:34 PM) QUOTE (VampireBiscuits @ Jul 16 2008, 07:42 PM)QUOTE (Jaye @ Jul 16 2008, 01:37 PM) QUOTE (VampireBiscuits @ Jul 16 2008, 02:49 AM)QUOTE (Marathonist @ Jul 14 2008, 09:23 PM) QUOTE (yaoi_myantidrug @ Jul 14 2008, 01:52 AM) only thing i cant decide is if i should take them back a couple decades. theres about 35 years between us and i really miss the long hair! Older=more experienced, know what I'm sayin'? I couldnt agree more! My husband is actually 20 years my senior and I can say from experience that older guys rock!! Though thats about the only place our age difference is really apparent though. We are two perfectly matched people. And my parents thought a 35 year old guy was too old for me! Haha! I dont think age (or gender for that matter) should be something that gets in the way of a good match/deep connection. If you love somebody than stuff like that shouldnt matter (IMO). It took my parents a little while to get used to when I first started dating older men, but they are both great friends with my husband now. Yeah, I don't care about age much either. But it didn't matter anyway - that guy already had/has a girlfriend... story of my life.. Awww dont worry Jaye.. they could always... break up. I live in hope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (IceVixen @ Jul 16 2008, 03:02 PM) QUOTE (Alsgalpal @ Jul 13 2008, 01:31 AM) Yeah, I have the hots for big Al, but if it came down to it... It's not worth hurting someone I love so dearly. I don't care if Alex is my idol or not. I would have to say "thanks, but no thanks." I know, boring, eh? My boyfriend and I have an agreement. IF he were to have the opportunity to boink Jessica Love Hewitt, im fine with it. If I have the opportunity to play tonsil hockey with ANY memeber of RUSH (they are a package deal, no?) then I can have at it. And, no.. im not stupid enough to stop at the Co-Ed hockey It has to be Geddy first A package deal! That was great! If only... I think it's funny when someone's significant other actually gets mad at the prospect of their partner making it with a celebrity. I mean, come on! Having said that, I keep my little Alex crush to myself. Although if I professed to having a crush on Alex, I think my dude would probably say, "Oh sure, go for the pretty one." If I said I had a crush on Geddy he'd probably say, "Do you need your eyes and head checked?" If I said I had a crush on Neil I'm sure his reaction would be something like, "Go to him. Go to him woman for he is Neil Peart and you do what he says." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ya_Big_Tree Posted July 16, 2008 Share Posted July 16, 2008 QUOTE (Janie @ Jul 16 2008, 05:11 PM) QUOTE (IceVixen @ Jul 16 2008, 03:02 PM) QUOTE (Alsgalpal @ Jul 13 2008, 01:31 AM) Yeah, I have the hots for big Al, but if it came down to it... It's not worth hurting someone I love so dearly. I don't care if Alex is my idol or not. I would have to say "thanks, but no thanks." I know, boring, eh? My boyfriend and I have an agreement. IF he were to have the opportunity to boink Jessica Love Hewitt, im fine with it. If I have the opportunity to play tonsil hockey with ANY memeber of RUSH (they are a package deal, no?) then I can have at it. And, no.. im not stupid enough to stop at the Co-Ed hockey It has to be Geddy first A package deal! That was great! If only... I think it's funny when someone's significant other actually gets mad at the prospect of their partner making it with a celebrity. I mean, come on! Having said that, I keep my little Alex crush to myself. Although if I professed to having a crush on Alex, I think my dude would probably say, "Oh sure, go for the pretty one." If I said I had a crush on Geddy he'd probably say, "Do you need your eyes and head checked?" If I said I had a crush on Neil I'm sure his reaction would be something like, "Go to him. Go to him woman for he is Neil Peart and you do what he says." Dont you just love how understanding guys are... NOT!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PanaceaFish Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Why Dom!! fancy meetin' you here, mate!! (it's Dhani from YESFANS!) Oh, and I'd DEFINITELY suck face with Gedd... In fact, I had a dream that I was not too long ago...GAH! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwoOneOneTwo Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 QUOTE (PanaceaFish @ Jul 16 2008, 05:16 PM) Why Dom!! fancy meetin' you here, mate!! (it's Dhani from YESFANS!) Oh, and I'd DEFINITELY suck face with Gedd... In fact, I had a dream that I was not too long ago...GAH! ...Dom's here?! Okay, back to the Big Three: I don't ask for much. I only want them to put on French maid outfits and scrub my entire apartment with toothbrushes while I sip iced Earl Grey tea and do The New York Times crossword puzzle... ...though I might be tempted to give Alex a handie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PanaceaFish Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 QUOTE (Imperatrix @ Aug 7 2008, 05:23 PM) ...Dom's here?! Why yes he is, Tas! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheBlonde Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 QUOTE (IceVixen @ Jul 16 2008, 05:02 PM) My boyfriend and I have an agreement. IF he were to have the opportunity to boink Jessica Love Hewitt, im fine with it. If I have the opportunity to play tonsil hockey with ANY memeber of RUSH (they are a package deal, no?) then I can have at it. And, no.. im not stupid enough to stop at the Co-Ed hockey It has to be Geddy first We have a similar arrangment. My husband can't seem to pin his "gimme" down to JLH or Jenny McCarthy. Of course, the object of our...shall we say affection...must be the one to initiate. So, being the awesome wife that I am, I said if both JLH and Jenny meet him and say "I MUST have you!", have at it. LOL! I'm a Geddy-girl myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheBlonde Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 QUOTE (Imperatrix @ Aug 7 2008, 04:23 PM) ...though I might be tempted to give Alex a handie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GedHead Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 ok my tonsil hockey hottie is GEDDY... definitely!! My husband thinks I'm funny when I call Geddy my Fantasy man.... but what are ya gonna do?? That man makes me melt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mara Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 QUOTE (GedHead @ Aug 11 2008, 03:40 PM) ok my tonsil hockey hottie is GEDDY... definitely!! My husband thinks I'm funny when I call Geddy my Fantasy man.... but what are ya gonna do?? That man makes me melt My husband doesn't think it's funny that my fantasy guy is Neil. Why do they act this way? I've given up trying to reassure him, and just make lots and lots of pointed remarks about it, in hopes that he'll get over it. Let's face it, my hooking up with Neil is predicated on several things (assuming I were single): he would have to split with his wife, we'd actually have to meet each other at some point (tricky, since we're a continent apart), and Neil would have to think me do-able. I have no issue with my husband's drooling over Elizabeth Hurley, so why should it matter if I have a few fantasies about Neil? And besides, my crush has lasted for over 20 years. I mean, jebus, time to deal with it, sir. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaye Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 QUOTE (Marathonist @ Aug 11 2008, 10:19 PM)QUOTE (GedHead @ Aug 11 2008, 03:40 PM) ok my tonsil hockey hottie is GEDDY... definitely!! My husband thinks I'm funny when I call Geddy my Fantasy man.... but what are ya gonna do?? That man makes me melt My husband doesn't think it's funny that my fantasy guy is Neil. Why do they act this way? I've given up trying to reassure him, and just make lots and lots of pointed remarks about it, in hopes that he'll get over it. Let's face it, my hooking up with Neil is predicated on several things (assuming I were single): he would have to split with his wife, we'd actually have to meet each other at some point (tricky, since we're a continent apart), and Neil would have to think me do-able. I have no issue with my husband's drooling over Elizabeth Hurley, so why should it matter if I have a few fantasies about Neil? And besides, my crush has lasted for over 20 years. I mean, jebus, time to deal with it, sir. Your husband is a hypocrite. (sorry...) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edgyspice Posted August 11, 2008 Share Posted August 11, 2008 QUOTE (Marathonist @ Aug 11 2008, 01:19 PM) QUOTE (GedHead @ Aug 11 2008, 03:40 PM) ok my tonsil hockey hottie is GEDDY... definitely!! My husband thinks I'm funny when I call Geddy my Fantasy man.... but what are ya gonna do?? That man makes me melt My husband doesn't think it's funny that my fantasy guy is Neil. Why do they act this way? I've given up trying to reassure him, and just make lots and lots of pointed remarks about it, in hopes that he'll get over it. Let's face it, my hooking up with Neil is predicated on several things (assuming I were single): he would have to split with his wife, we'd actually have to meet each other at some point (tricky, since we're a continent apart), and Neil would have to think me do-able. I have no issue with my husband's drooling over Elizabeth Hurley, so why should it matter if I have a few fantasies about Neil? And besides, my crush has lasted for over 20 years. I mean, jebus, time to deal with it, sir. It's because when men lust after many different women they're "just being guys," because all guys want to f*ck all the women in the world, but if women express active interest in a dude it's totally wrong and gross. Also, if a woman looks twice at a man she's not married to, it totally means that her husband is unable to satisfy her in bed. And yes, I'm being UBER-sarcastic in order to make a point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PanaceaFish Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 And a great point it is, edgy!! Kinda makes me glad there's NO man in my life to dictate who I can and can't lust after... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mara Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 QUOTE (Jaye @ Aug 11 2008, 06:51 PM) QUOTE (Marathonist @ Aug 11 2008, 10:19 PM)QUOTE (GedHead @ Aug 11 2008, 03:40 PM) ok my tonsil hockey hottie is GEDDY... definitely!! My husband thinks I'm funny when I call Geddy my Fantasy man.... but what are ya gonna do?? That man makes me melt My husband doesn't think it's funny that my fantasy guy is Neil. Why do they act this way? I've given up trying to reassure him, and just make lots and lots of pointed remarks about it, in hopes that he'll get over it. Let's face it, my hooking up with Neil is predicated on several things (assuming I were single): he would have to split with his wife, we'd actually have to meet each other at some point (tricky, since we're a continent apart), and Neil would have to think me do-able. I have no issue with my husband's drooling over Elizabeth Hurley, so why should it matter if I have a few fantasies about Neil? And besides, my crush has lasted for over 20 years. I mean, jebus, time to deal with it, sir. Your husband is a hypocrite. (sorry...) Neh, he's just being a typical guy. I don't buy into it for one minute. He did ask me one day (and this is so funny) if I thought he looked a little like Neil. I said, "sure, honey, whatever you need me to tell you. In fact, you're a dead ringer!" To be fair, he (husband) is a nice looking guy. If I REALLY thought he was seriously troubled over my Neil-crush, I'd keep quiet about it. And get my husband some therapy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edgyspice Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 QUOTE (Marathonist @ Aug 11 2008, 05:46 PM) He did ask me one day (and this is so funny) if I thought he looked a little like Neil. That melted my heart a little bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GedHead Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 QUOTE (Marathonist @ Aug 11 2008, 08:46 PM) QUOTE (Jaye @ Aug 11 2008, 06:51 PM) QUOTE (Marathonist @ Aug 11 2008, 10:19 PM)QUOTE (GedHead @ Aug 11 2008, 03:40 PM) ok my tonsil hockey hottie is GEDDY... definitely!! My husband thinks I'm funny when I call Geddy my Fantasy man.... but what are ya gonna do?? That man makes me melt My husband doesn't think it's funny that my fantasy guy is Neil. Why do they act this way? I've given up trying to reassure him, and just make lots and lots of pointed remarks about it, in hopes that he'll get over it. Let's face it, my hooking up with Neil is predicated on several things (assuming I were single): he would have to split with his wife, we'd actually have to meet each other at some point (tricky, since we're a continent apart), and Neil would have to think me do-able. I have no issue with my husband's drooling over Elizabeth Hurley, so why should it matter if I have a few fantasies about Neil? And besides, my crush has lasted for over 20 years. I mean, jebus, time to deal with it, sir. Your husband is a hypocrite. (sorry...) Neh, he's just being a typical guy. I don't buy into it for one minute. He did ask me one day (and this is so funny) if I thought he looked a little like Neil. I said, "sure, honey, whatever you need me to tell you. In fact, you're a dead ringer!" To be fair, he (husband) is a nice looking guy. If I REALLY thought he was seriously troubled over my Neil-crush, I'd keep quiet about it. And get my husband some therapy. My husband and I have been together 21 years.......ssoooo We've always joked about looking but not touching.. No problem there. It's really 100% likely I'll NEVER EVER meet Geddy in person, and like you said, they'd have to split up with their current S/O etc etc etc So for us it's funny. He does get jealous sometimes, but not often.. just enough to know he cares. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janie Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 QUOTE (Marathonist @ Aug 11 2008, 06:46 PM) QUOTE (Jaye @ Aug 11 2008, 06:51 PM) QUOTE (Marathonist @ Aug 11 2008, 10:19 PM)QUOTE (GedHead @ Aug 11 2008, 03:40 PM) ok my tonsil hockey hottie is GEDDY... definitely!! My husband thinks I'm funny when I call Geddy my Fantasy man.... but what are ya gonna do?? That man makes me melt My husband doesn't think it's funny that my fantasy guy is Neil. Why do they act this way? I've given up trying to reassure him, and just make lots and lots of pointed remarks about it, in hopes that he'll get over it. Let's face it, my hooking up with Neil is predicated on several things (assuming I were single): he would have to split with his wife, we'd actually have to meet each other at some point (tricky, since we're a continent apart), and Neil would have to think me do-able. I have no issue with my husband's drooling over Elizabeth Hurley, so why should it matter if I have a few fantasies about Neil? And besides, my crush has lasted for over 20 years. I mean, jebus, time to deal with it, sir. Your husband is a hypocrite. (sorry...) Neh, he's just being a typical guy. I don't buy into it for one minute. He did ask me one day (and this is so funny) if I thought he looked a little like Neil. I said, "sure, honey, whatever you need me to tell you. In fact, you're a dead ringer!" To be fair, he (husband) is a nice looking guy. If I REALLY thought he was seriously troubled over my Neil-crush, I'd keep quiet about it. And get my husband some therapy. Men get jealous over the silliest of things sometimes! As you said, what's the reality of the situation here? What are the odds that you'll actually meet Neil? That's part of what makes a crush fun, especially on someone that is unattainable. Also, I think it's silly to think that any of us are never going to find anyone else attractive once we're with someone. People always form crushes. Makes you feel good, right? It's fun to think thoughts about other people, whether you know them or not. It's all in good fun I say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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