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#1 barney_rebel

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Posted 20 March 2006 - 09:29 PM

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Note dates are not accurate (we're ahead of schedule).

I'll need your input please.  Not all tasks are listed yet

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Posted 20 March 2006 - 09:52 PM

what would you like to know....  how? rofl3.gif  

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Posted 21 March 2006 - 01:33 AM

God! First off, chill the hell out. Next, chill out. Third, chill. You'll never have kids if you're that uptight.

Relax. This is the fun part. It tends to suck after conception, so take advantage!  

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Posted 21 March 2006 - 06:26 AM

WHY ON EARTH HAVEN"T YOU UPDATED YOUR WILL YET??????????????????user posted image




GOD!


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Posted 21 March 2006 - 10:37 AM

Geeeeez, that is a list and a half.

Listen, I'll give you some advice (from someone who has 3 kids and it took over 2 years to get pregnant with the first) and you can take it for what it's worth:

Firstly, and not to put a damper on your "plan" however, I thought that when I went off the pill "BAM" I'd get pregnant!!  I was so far off the mark.  Every month was a disappointment, tears, paranoia, research, questions..on and on and a year later - still not pregnant.
Off to the Dr. - keeping ovulation charts, laparoscapy, finally fertility drugs - to no avail.  After 6 months of fertility drugs I finally said to my husband "I won't go any further with this.  If we are not meant to be parents biologically, then so be it".  And with that, we stopped "planning".  
One month later PREGNANT!!  As soon as we stopped obsessing and thinking about getting pregnant = NO STRESS.

The moral of this story is: don't plan, don't stress, don't keep logs - just do what comes naturally and let mother nature do the rest.

Good luck Barn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted 21 March 2006 - 12:15 PM

QUOTE (barney_rebel @ Mar 20 2006, 10:29 PM)
(we're ahead of schedule).



How far ahead of schedule.......should we be saying "Congratulations" or "Good Luck"?



And I would advise you to buy a sportscar NOW.  You'll never get away with that once the kid arrives.  trink39.gif






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Posted 21 March 2006 - 03:04 PM

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1. I didnt know having a child was a task!
2. I can't beleve you made a list
3. Life doesnt work like that
4. Thank God I will never be your child
6. Jesus you can plan but you took it to far.
7. Does your Wife like your nice typed out plan of her life?

Life is what happens when your busy making other plans. (Thanks  Mr.Lennon)

I certainly hope that this plan ( not the baby but your typed version) was a joke.

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Posted 21 March 2006 - 08:52 PM

QUOTE (pixey @ Mar 21 2006, 01:04 PM)
rofl3.gif  
1. I didnt know having a child was a task!
2. I can't beleve you made a list
3. Life doesnt work like that
4. Thank God I will never be your child
6. Jesus you can plan but you took it to far.
7. Does your Wife like your nice typed out plan of her life?

Life is what happens when your busy making other plans. (Thanks  Mr.Lennon)

I certainly hope that this plan ( not the baby but your typed version) was a joke.

  rofl3.gif  

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Posted 21 March 2006 - 10:24 PM

Thanks for all your input.

Remember - the plan isn't to be followed to the T - it's more to get an idea of the time lines.

And yes, where we come from - life is a Gantt Chart.

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Posted 22 March 2006 - 12:32 PM

Good luck and all the best to you and T smile.gif  

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Posted 23 March 2006 - 07:49 AM

hey Barn... i commend you...
i always planned to have kids... just not when i actually HAD them!!  laugh.gif



just plan to be flexible it's happens in God's time... not yours!! so just remember to be flexible!!
good luck to both of you honey!! new_thumbsupsmileyanim.gif  rose.gif  

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Posted 31 May 2006 - 09:55 PM

This thread needs an update...

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Posted 31 May 2006 - 09:59 PM

You guys better get busy!!  I just KNOW your going to have beautiful babies!!!

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Posted 31 May 2006 - 10:00 PM

Get lots of sleep now Cause you won't when you have one  icon_really_happy_guy.gif  

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Posted 31 May 2006 - 10:04 PM

QUOTE (Alsgalpal @ May 31 2006, 10:59 PM)
You guys better get busy!!  I just KNOW your going to have beautiful babies!!!

The busy part has "passed" so to speak  cool.gif I just need to update the plan.

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Posted 31 May 2006 - 10:05 PM

QUOTE (blonde77th @ May 31 2006, 11:00 PM)
Get lots of sleep now Cause you won't when you have one  icon_really_happy_guy.gif

Ah coming from a guy who already has severe insomnia and sleep apnea, I won't have a problem there biggrin.gif

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Posted 01 June 2006 - 12:13 AM

QUOTE (barney_rebel @ May 31 2006, 09:55 PM)
This thread needs an update...

Indeed. It does, indeed.  yes.gif  

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Posted 01 June 2006 - 07:50 AM

Hows it going Barney????

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Posted 01 June 2006 - 10:03 PM

QUOTE (Trace @ Jun 1 2006, 08:50 AM)
Hows it going Barney????

I will tell you in two months smile.gif

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Posted 01 June 2006 - 10:08 PM

why 2 months ?? confused13.gif  bekloppt.gif i see you  bekloppt.gif  




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