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#12621 Permanent-Rush

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:00 PM

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:01 PM

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 02:00 PM, said:

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 01:59 PM, said:

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 01:56 PM, said:

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 01:44 PM, said:

Maybe I should go do it.

Nobody would really care anyway, only a few would. :(

Threatening to kill yourself unless more people start caring about you is blackmail.





That's not why I said that Dol

What did you say?

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 02:00 PM, said:

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 01:59 PM, said:

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 01:56 PM, said:

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 01:44 PM, said:

Maybe I should go do it.

Nobody would really care anyway, only a few would. :(

Threatening to kill yourself unless more people start caring about you is blackmail.





That's not why I said that Dol

What did you say?

I said that cuz my life sucks.

#12623 Day of Light

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:05 PM

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 02:01 PM, said:

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 02:00 PM, said:

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 01:59 PM, said:

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 01:56 PM, said:

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 01:44 PM, said:

Maybe I should go do it.

Nobody would really care anyway, only a few would. :(

Threatening to kill yourself unless more people start caring about you is blackmail.





That's not why I said that Dol

What did you say?

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 02:00 PM, said:

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 01:59 PM, said:

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 01:56 PM, said:

View PostGotNeilPeart?, on 20 April 2017 - 01:44 PM, said:

Maybe I should go do it.

Nobody would really care anyway, only a few would. :(

Threatening to kill yourself unless more people start caring about you is blackmail.





That's not why I said that Dol

What did you say?

I said that cuz my life sucks.

Does your life not sucking depend entirely on the opinions of others?

I'm sorry if I'm being harsh. It's not my intention, but hopefully you understand what I'm getting at. I want you to feel better, and I don't think that can truly happen without a change of perspective. Seeking approval is not healthy. You can't force anybody to accept you, it's something that happens when you're being free and authentic to yourself at the cost of nobody's feelings.

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:08 PM

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:11 PM

I consider myself very lucky to have the acceptance of many people who are close to me, but I struggled with earning it up to the point where I stopped thinking about what I wanted or thought I was fairly entitled to.

Your friends will love you when you want to love yourself. They'll help you get there, but you can't make them do the work for you. You can't make them notice the work you've done, either. There comes a point where you have to quietly accept that you've come a long way, that you're truer to yourself and happier now, and that even if nobody notices this (and it hurts not to be noticed for this, I know) they can now implicitly enjoy the person you've become.

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:14 PM

One of the nicest things my mother told me recently was that she'd noticed me turning into an adult. I wanted to prod her more about it but ultimately it just made me happy that after all of the praise and encouragement had died down from childhood, that I was in a better place now than I was before.

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:17 PM

Something else of note: you don't notice anybody else's struggle. Not really. They can tell you about it, you can empathize with it, but you will never have the full picture. As I was getting home from my exam and walking up to my room I lamented that I just wasn't as smart as my brother who never seemed to have the same problems that I did, and my dad shot back "yes he did, he studied all the time, he was always busy."

Sometimes you think other people are geniuses, or have it easy, or something, but they really don't.

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:23 PM

Biggest payday on record, which is nice

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:26 PM

View PostDay of Light, on 20 April 2017 - 02:11 PM, said:

Your friends will love you when you want to love yourself. They'll help you get there, but you can't make them do the work for you. You can't make them notice the work you've done, either. There comes a point where you have to quietly accept that you've come a long way, that you're truer to yourself and happier now, and that even if nobody notices this (and it hurts not to be noticed for this, I know) they can now implicitly enjoy the person you've become.
This is true. Essentially no one's under an obligation to remain with negative and self-loathing people. They more often move on rather than attempt to fix the person.

In that way, publicly lamenting not having friends is less effective than keeping it cool and being yourself when it comes to making new friends

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:27 PM

I don't post intellectual psychological whatever stuff on tost enough, so I will

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:28 PM

Here's a quick stats update for this thread:

Member name Posts
GotNeilPeart? 2624
That One Guy    1805
jamie 1748
Day of Light   1705
Verena   1249
Babycat    950
JohnRogers 949
vaportrailer   468
Brucey 267
Union 5-3992   193
YYZumbi 126
Crimsonmistymemory 123
PolarizeMe   107
GabesCavesOfIce    105
prolix 34
ghostworks 32
Mr. Not   24
caspag   23
treeduck 22
goose 19
Bigbobby10    17
Mystic Slipperman 16
LakesideShark    11
Tinwoodsman   2
liquidcrystalcompass    2
OldRUSHfan    1
Chicken hawk 1
Maverick 1
GeddysMullet 1
Ash-517   1
1-0-0-1-0-0-1   1

#12632 That One Guy

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:40 PM

View Posttreeduck, on 20 April 2017 - 02:28 PM, said:

Here's a quick stats update for this thread:

Member name    Posts
GotNeilPeart?            2624
That One Guy           1805
jamie                         1748
Day of Light              1705
Verena                      1249
Babycat                       950
JohnRogers                 949
vaportrailer                  468
Brucey                         267
Union 5-3992              193
YYZumbi                     126
Crimsonmistymemory 123
PolarizeMe                  107
GabesCavesOfIce       105
prolix                             34
ghostworks                    32
Mr. Not                          24
caspag                          23
treeduck                        22
goose                            19
Bigbobby10                   17
Mystic Slipperman         16
LakesideShark               11
Tinwoodsman                  2
liquidcrystalcompass       2
OldRUSHfan                   1
Chicken hawk                 1
Maverick                         1
GeddysMullet                 1
Ash-517                          1
1-0-0-1-0-0-1                  1
It's been quite a varied tost :yes:

#12633 That One Guy

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:41 PM

How many title companies and Berkshire Hathaway offices does this rich ass town need??

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 02:52 PM

3.5ish to go

might cut a bit early

and hit the nearby liquor store yo

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Posted 20 April 2017 - 03:23 PM

View PostThat One Guy, on 20 April 2017 - 02:52 PM, said:

3.5ish to go

might cut a bit early

and hit the nearby liquor store yo

We'll end v.17 with a drink. Always appropriate.




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